In many relationships people seem to be unable to communicate the nature of the way we experience sexual experience. Is this a gender based problem are men more able to communicate their experience than women are? Discribing the experience is such a turn on to your mate...seems like such a waste. Going beyond "it just feels good" into the how and why of it makes me want to do it again and again..why are we unable to do that?
2006-08-19 08:52:52 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Sociology
It's not a thing of gender, it's a thing of your relationship and that persons creativity. If they were raised by a strict mother or religious homelife they are less likely of course to communicate verbally those thoughts and ideas. If they are highly intelligent as well, they may not see the importance in stimulating you as well mentally. Maybe what you are looking for is a copy of yourself, or a true soulmate. Sex is a mind stimulation before it is an act. It appears the mate here you are referring to seeks your attention and wants to learn you more and in the sack they have your attention..
2006-08-19 11:47:01 · answer #1 · answered by AJ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well - I really don't know what the hell your talking about but, the question "how does our sexuality separate us from our mates", excuse me, but I don't know whether your gay or bi or what???? But if your heterosexual than our sexuality is separated by the mear fact that men are men and woman are women. You've really got me confused as to what the hell you asking.
2006-08-19 09:12:16 · answer #2 · answered by You'llneverguess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋