Will a women's first intercourse always make her bleed?

Question

I'm thinking that's not always true for a female virgin. All hymens are created differently. And suppose the female masturbates. That could break the hymen a little.
Must there be blood? Must you see a rip down there?
Suppose the man is average or maybe above average equipped.

And for people who say "have sex with her and then you can tell"...but what is it that i'm supposed to tell? or feel! if i was also a virgin! I'm not a doctor when it comes to the female anatomy exactly...so what does a hymen even really look like?

I was also told "if it slides in too easily...then she's not a virgin." I think that was the best advice.

And gosh. don't give me offensive comments! I was a virgin just months ago and actually had decided on keeping it longer, but my gf didn't think it had to wait for marriage...or any longer. I respect virginity a lot. that's all.

Answer 1

not all women bleed during their first intercourse. hymen is so fregile, that careless exercie can break it. aerobics, karate, and cycling can cause the hymen to break. also, hymen is very elastic, and it might not break when a woman has intercourse.

Answer 2

Not all women have hymens, not all hymens make it through childhood and not all hymens bleed when they break. A very long time ago, women used to spread pig's blood on their sheets after the wedding night to show the world that they had been a virgin. You cannot always tell if a woman is a virgin, not by feel, not by look, not by scent, and frequently even a doctor cannot tell. As for "if she slides too easily..." that is just bunk. Some women are stretchier than others, some make more lubricant, some men make more lubricant.
None of these things really matter though they are interesting to know. What really matters is if you and your intended partner have a trustful and loving relationship; if you both feel that you are ready to have sex, accept the responsibility for doing so, and are ready to deal with the consequences (and there are many). Whether or not this is your/her first time or your/her fifth (etc.) enjoy the time together and try not to worry about silly things like a hymen.
Awesome question by the way, wish more men had the intestinal fortitude to ask mature questions like this.

Answer 3

Not all women will bleed. The hymen will generally not tear because of masturbation, but might due to tampon use or sometimes exercise (actually, I'm not sure about exercise, but I heard that was true). What does it look like? It will be inside her vagina, so she may not let you look. It is not something you will be able to see during sex. It may be very difficult for a man to tell if a woman is a virgin. You will just have to take her word for it.

"If it slides in too easily...then she's not a virgin" I don't think this is true. Sex organs come in all different sizes.

If you haven't done it yet, you may want to rethink doing it. Waiting until marriage is a good thing. Generally when a girl says her boyfriend is pushing her into it, we tell her that he is just after sex. The opposite may also be true. make sure you are doing it for the right reasons.

Answer 4

NO she will not always bleed the first time. The hymen can be broken may ways and it does not mean she is not a virgin. Known to break during gymnastics, horseback riding and other activities.

My first time I did not bleed, I was a virgin and did not masturbate by sticking anything inside of me... so it was still there I suppose, but I did not bleed.

I believe it is a thin membrane of skin that doesn't block the enterance to the vagina but does make the enterance a bit smaller. Think of it like a drum with a hole in the middle of the skin. It is still tight accross will still hold a beat, but the skin is still there, but if you were to push your hand through it, the skin would finish tearing and then just be the frame of the drum and hardly any skin left.

I hope that helps.

Answer 5

nicely you won't have the capacity to actaully see a hymen from the exterior. Medically that's merely an exceedingly skinny membrane merely interior the vagina. a woman can acidentallty tear her hymen by way of activities or actual interest. I tore mine while i develop into at a dance in tenth grade, all i develop into doing develop into dancing and that i did bleed a sprint, yet no longer something substantial. as quickly as I did supply my virginity to my husband i did no longer bleed, yet i develop right into a sprint sore day after in the present day. Now somtimes i'm even tighter than as quickly as I gave him my virginity because of the fact I prepare kegal excercises. So there is no "for particular" thank you to tell if a woman is a virgin till she has a scientific examination or perhaps then she could have torn it without ever haviing intercourse. females are diverse sizes down there too like adult males , so the "if it slides in too rather"isn't a correct detector. i'm hoping this develop into informative to you.

Answer 6

No, they wont always bleed during..i bled after wards..some don't bleed at all, a hymen is just a thin piece of well skin like material..you wont be able to see anything, and she wont be able to even notice if it is there or not, only a qualified physician would even notice. sliding in easy or not, means nothing..unless of course you just had a child..all women are created differently. The only real way to know to if someone is a virgin is to have them checked out by a doctor.

Answer 7

all women are not going to bleed during their first time. a woman's hymen may be broken prior to sexual intercourse for the first time. something as simple is rigorous excercise is enough to break a woman's hymen.

Answer 8

Not true that she always bleeds. Only if the hymen is tight enough and the penis large enough.Hymen could already have stretched or torn from life...