this guy i've been seeing for a month and a half when we first met he gave me his number to call him.....the first date he came from out of town on his break from work that has him in and out of town every few months to come see me for two to three hours.....the second date he was sooo tired from his job but still went to the club with me and spent some time with me afterwards and he kissed my hand before saying goodbye ...........his job is 15-20 hours shift so i understand he's busy but when he calls me or text me i answer him as soon as i can but when i call him or text him it takes him hours to reply i'm confused he's in the military and i hear bad things about military guys and relationships so i'm sooo scared i really like him but i don't want to put my all into this until i know he's being real.....how can I tell before completely falling for him?
2006-08-19 08:34:34 · 2 answers · asked by mrs. MJ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
it doesn't appear as if he's playing you, so just take it how it comes and see what happens once you're able to see him more. you did say you understood, so which part don't you understand. he's in the military and they are busy people so either you'll wait for him or you'll move on! GOOD LUCK!
2006-08-19 08:43:39 · answer #1 · answered by BREIZY2SHA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't......it's a risk you simply have to take to be in a relationship.
2006-08-19 15:41:07 · answer #2 · answered by null_the_living_darkness 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋