my boyfriend wants too watch really madly , but i think it will couse
perblems!
Why does he want too watch, ?Why dos'nt he just want me, to just do him?
2006-08-19 07:55:59 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It's your call, i hope the man could be me. But prankly speaking it is weird, i dont know when is weird became normal. But somehow we are living in the world of full of imagination. may be your boyfriend 50/50. (half man/half woman)
2006-08-19 08:13:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that would be a good idea. Being in a sexual relationship at 19 is a major deal. You are still very young. If you are asking this question than you already really know the answer. Listen to your gut. There is a lot to consider. If you break up with him, will he tell everyone. Do you know the other people. What if they have a STD. What if you get pregnant while having sex with another man. How would you explain that to your child. Your place is not to be his sexually toy. If he wants an orgy, he should pop in a movie. He should not want you to defile your body. Think! Don't let people use you. This event may change the rest of your life.
2016-03-17 00:03:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may be normal by the standards of some, however I hope you will stand your ground and not do as he wants.
Why? I could give you a number of reasons but you may not accept them; I think you will accept this reason though: if he loves and respects you, then he will not press you to go through with his desire; I suspect that he may indeed have little true love or respect for you, precisely because of this desire that he has.
If a man truly loves and honours a woman, he would not want to share her with another man; neither would he pressure her to go along with any selfish desires of his.
I wish all the best for you; perhaps, it is time for you to consider whether or not to continue being with this guy?
2006-08-19 08:10:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Theres a lot of relationships that have different "kinks", this guy has a fetish to watch you make love to other men. Its not really healthy, but some relationships do this and it keeps them alive, in some cases it truly enhances the couples time together. Personally, I would'nt do this, because, I wouldnt want any other man touching my woman. But this is nothing but a kinky fantasy on his part. But the call is yours, whether you would want to act out his fantasy/fetish. Depends on how trusting yall both are toward each other.
2006-08-19 09:35:59 · answer #4 · answered by tennman012000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you?
Look- what people do in there own privacy is their own business, the question really is whether or not you are comfortable with it.
May I just say- PLEASE don't do things JUST to keep your guy if it is not what YOU want to do. It will never work out. Relationships are give and take. If it balances out for you, that is one thing, but if you're in turmoil over his requests, you should stop and really think about what he's asking and why you feel the way you do.
He will NOT love you more just because you give in. Chances are he will WANT more.
I feel like you are very young... it makes me sad.
2006-08-19 08:11:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is trying to turn you out. Soon he will be your pimp. Do what is asked of your man bring some extra money in get a new car buy a new house. Take one for the team!
2006-08-19 08:40:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what's normal? that 's for you to define however he may just like to watch people have different attractions. either you can accept that side of him or move on never do anything sexual to compromise yourself. whats surprising is he wants to watch you with another man vs. a women but whatever .
2006-08-19 08:06:39 · answer #7 · answered by queen2be 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Normal?
Ummm.... No.
He has let himself get WAY too deep into his sexual fantasies. If he can't pull himself back from the brink he is liable to go over. Unless you want to go with him it may be time for a new boyfriend who actually wants your unique beauty and intimacy for hiimself...
You deserve better...
2006-08-19 08:05:26 · answer #8 · answered by Steven H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is normal for a voyeur, who is disconnected from you. There is no love here , no affection. Wouldn't you like to watch two people make love? Maybe, but not your boyfriend. Dump him!
2006-08-19 08:05:11 · answer #9 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you think is the obvious answer ?
Sometimes the obvious and simple answer is the best. Careful with him. This comes from a guy point of view.
2006-08-19 08:02:03 · answer #10 · answered by davidcool756 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋