ok..am the asian guy who broke up with my gilrl back home who wants to have a male partner coz am bi..Thanks for the answers i received and now the searching is over .that easy..thats fast..i hope u can help me out with this one now am in..
i lived in a muslim country,am a christian.one night i had sex with an arab muscled man in his aparment,we are quiet coz his a fren was sleeping.after a week, i had sex with a young arab man, at this point same apartment,same place,he is the fren of the first guy i had sex.i told him that and keep a secret.he told me not to tell his friend,because its very hard here if people know about us.i fell in love with this man.ive give him message,and he is the one calling coz the situation is hard.until now we have communication.he know whats inside my heart ad i think i know it to for him.But you think this will work or it can be called a relationship?we just meet when he told me to go to his apartment when its free? what can you say about this?
2006-08-19 07:42:46 · 11 answers · asked by Student 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
the last time i call his fren who i had sex the first., The man i love called me and ask why i call his fren? what are my intensions? but i explain it and he aacept but he told me to delete the number, and i did..am happy when he is calling me,,and giving him message everyday..i knjow he cares for me also..but the situation is hard..the relationshipo should be kept secret..coz it is not allowed in their religion..i care also not to let his frens, family, collegues to know about this.. Me and him was the only one who know what is with us..
2006-08-19 07:48:14 · update #1
what should i do? am i doing right?or this things right? but hes the man i think i searched for love..= <
2006-08-19 08:13:37 · update #2
ok to add or summed it up..
i have a relationship with this arab guy..and his friend know me, who i had sex before i met my guy. My guy's friend know me because of what we done..but we dont have relationship, just that he know me..my guy keep it to his friend that he is meeting me in their apartment whenever free time..we meet and do sex..just few hours of talk..now maybe this coming month we will make our cool off for sex coz the ramadam will come to their religion where all things should not be done cozits haram..i agree coz i understand islam also..ok tanks to you and i need more answers please..
2006-08-20 11:47:01 · update #3
as days passed by, and all the answers i read are so true..as u can observed with all the answers a big percent is saying to get rid of the relationship if thats really a relationship.it is really hard for me to stop and get out..coz i feel the pain but to face the truth really hurts..maybe this saturday my answer will be resolved, it is a;so because of want really happening on it..thanks folks..my question is still open for answers..
2006-08-24 15:31:31 · update #4
The first guy was just a random one time thing and it sounds like everyone understands that, so just be with the Arab guy. Sounds like it could be a real relationship to me. However, if he is muslim and you are christian, neither of you should be in a male-male relationship. Maybe you guys should sit down and talk about whats really important to you- sex or religion. Love will prevail no matter what but make sure that its real before you give in completely. good luck man
2006-08-25 04:48:17 · answer #1 · answered by Slutlana 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are creating a situation that can cost your "love's" head! If anyone finds out about this, they will cut his head off, and I am not kidding...what the hell are you doing? Get the hell out of that country, get a job somewhere else, and go about your life...but stay away from Muslims! You are not the brightest bulb I have heard of, but if you love this guy, then protect him by leaving NOW!
2006-08-19 08:05:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Man, that's just a major mess.
you dont knwo what you want, you are overvalueing superficial things, and it's like you are directing your life according to it.
Just get away from all of them, get away from your girlfriend, and take some time off for yourself
if anything else comes into that mess, it's gonna get worse. and it's not getting any better.
have you ever thought you might be responsible for this kind of situation?you sound confused as hell. definetely, take a good time off, and meditate on what you need for youself, for real
2006-08-19 07:57:46 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
definately not a real relationship. what you have are just sexual relationship. perhaps born out of necessity to release sexual tension which is not uncommon in a conservative muslim country
where heterosexual sex outside of a marriage is a no no. Even if there is a possibility here, you cant have a relationship with two different people in the same place. one of them is gonna sacrifice friendship for you not to mention a forbidden love. Will one of them destroy your relationship out of jealousy?
2006-08-19 12:01:34 · answer #4 · answered by sstooc2001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then dump the angst and love him. Yes, it has to be secret -- for now -- why don't both of you find a way to move out of the country you are in, go for college if he is young -- or get jobs -- and move to a country that is accepting. Then you won't have to hide and you can build your own family.
*hug*
Peace.
Reynolds
believeinyou24@yahoo.com
2006-08-19 09:05:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find one guy and then HOLD ON! No matter what you're INTENTIONS are toward another individual, if you want a relationship with ONE person, then EVERYONE else has to come second. Oh, and a word of warning - STOP having sex with everyone and everbody before you ruin your rep!
2006-08-19 07:58:00 · answer #6 · answered by dmspartan2000 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i read half of this and got sick.
i am not gay, did not even know that there was a spot for gays on this thing. just browsing.
if you are a christian then sex is for marriage, and with a guy makes it worse dude.
it is a SIN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-08-25 08:03:41 · answer #7 · answered by katz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is lust, not love. Back off because one of them is going to get pissed off.
2006-08-21 00:41:44 · answer #8 · answered by reme_1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's a mess but sounds like a relationship to me.
2006-08-20 12:00:56 · answer #9 · answered by mat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would get out now
2006-08-22 16:50:20 · answer #10 · answered by lady heather 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋