I like this guy ,But, I'm not sure if he likes me back how do I find out.And if you have anything harsh to say save it.
2006-08-19 07:38:39 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
get one of his guy friends to start talking with him about girls. then have him mention you and ask what he thinks about you.
2006-08-19 07:44:09 · answer #1 · answered by LITTLE GREEN GOD 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I agree with answers 1 and 2.
Be yourself; study hard; try to excel at what you do but NOT to impress anyone - for your own self-interests!
Regarding whether he likes you, I've found most guys reluctant to act unless they are sure they won't be rejected. But you don't want to come across as a brazen hussy, either. Find something enjoyable and public to do and bring it up, like "Do you know if they've published the varsity game schedule yet? I was looking forward to taking in a few of the home games this year..." or "Have you seen
Then, when you've spent some time together, he won't have to SAY whether he likes you, because actions speak louder than words. And if you find out you really enjoy his company, tell him so. "I really enjoyed checking out the farmers' market with you on Saturday. We should go again when pumpkins are in season"...
Okay, so my examples are cheesy and fictitious, but either you can apply them to your specific circumstances and be really sincere, or you can really cheese it up - you know, that whole Target marketing scheme has some merit with the "campy is cool" - There are some really fun wholesome things to do in the company of others but if you're too cool to admit it, you can always pull it off as being sarcastic.
If you open the door of communication and an avenue for him to ask you out, he will either seize the opportunity because he's interested, decline because of other commitments but try to take a raincheck, or decline because he's not interested and, hey, you'd rather know now than later, right?
2006-08-19 08:01:03 · answer #2 · answered by girlnblack 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The fact that you have been acquainted, and that he is aware that you’re interested, does not mean that he knows all about you.
Therefore, it would be a good idea to let him get to know a side of you that he doesn’t know.
What personal characteristics or feature do you have that make you different from other people. Are you a philanthropist for example? What do you enjoy doing? Do you have anything in common? Well… let him be aware of That, let him get to know your other side and he will be impressed.
Be yourself though, people recognize a faked personality miles away, always be sincere. He must show interest in the real you.
Best wishes,
2006-08-19 07:54:15 · answer #3 · answered by etherberg 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be friendly and don't act desperate. There isn't much that makes a guy run faster than a desperate woman. Talk to him and be witty (if you can be without it being forced). Be natural, be yourself, and don't try too hard. If he likes you for you, it will come out eventually. If not, then maybe you will make a good friend out of it in the end.
2006-08-19 07:46:10 · answer #4 · answered by Gwen 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What would you really gain from this? What kind of attention are you looking for from these guys? I can probably assess that you are a nice girl who is just feeling a little inferior because you feel like guys do not notice you or give you the attention that you desire. nothing free is valued. If you want guys to think of you as a piece of ***, and this is the kind of attention that you want...then by all means act like a slut. There is no real difference then behaving like a slut and being a slut. If that is not what you want, then don't do it. It will only be counterproductive to what you are actually trying to achieve. You want to be noticed for who you are. So if you truly are a slut, behave like one and you will be noticed as one. Obviously your sister was...and by you of all people. See my point? You will only gain the attention of pervs, and all the "potential boyfriends" will be turned off by this behavior because I am sure that they do not want a slut as a girlfriend. See where I am getting at? this is counterproductive... your sister is just young. hopefully she will learn the facts of life, as she gets older. Keep this in mind... a guy will never respect a girl who does not respect herself. nothing free is valued.
2016-03-17 07:15:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it were me, I'd try to talk to him. If he's open and communicative, then that's a good start. I'd also wait and see if he might just do something to impress me first. Get him to talk about his interests and try to find some common ground where you can meet in the middle, and go from there.
2006-08-19 07:45:18 · answer #6 · answered by Shadow 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've always found that if you act like it's no big deal (you could do just fine without him) it makes you more intriguing. So if you decide to ask him out, just don't act too nervous or like it's a big deal to you. It's a well-known fact that many guys are more interested in women who don't even want them, and most guys I know are scared off by someone who's intensely attracted to them right off the bat. I had such a crush on a guy one time and he told me he didn't want to date me, that he had a girlfriend. As soon as I started dating someone else, he wanted me back!
2006-08-19 07:47:31 · answer #7 · answered by Jenny Alice 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I would say just go up to him and talk to him. And try to schedule a date. Men like a woman that is direct and forward in that sense. That might impress him. You would be surprised.
2006-08-19 07:44:38 · answer #8 · answered by cannonball 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You can just have a conversation and ask. Personally, I hated all the games that came with dating. Glad that's over. :) Good luck!
2006-08-19 07:44:03 · answer #9 · answered by Dave 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Stay confident around him.
Hang with him often,
But not too often.
Try ur hardest to avoid being clingy at all.
2006-08-19 07:45:04 · answer #10 · answered by Analina 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The "likes me back" comment gives me the impression that you're very young. If you are, then this stage in your life will pass. If only you could see that focusing on yourself is the most important thing for girls to do, instead of being caught up with some boy who is probably too immature to share his feelings with you.
The best thing you can do to impress a guy? Be yourself, do something for yourself.
I think Han Dang has the best answer.
2006-08-19 07:47:49 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 5⤋