if someone appears to like you because you because they are stirring your tea, and the reality is they are stirring poison into the tea, it should be clear which is more important.
2006-08-19 07:37:44
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answer #1
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answered by cassandra 6
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Sadly, in most situations, appearance is more important.
Why? Because many people make judgments and assume reality without ever looking past those surface appearances. So, for most things, if the appearance says one thing and the reality is different, you're going to be judged based on the appearance.
It shouldn't be that way, because appearance is subjective. What something looks like has much more to do with the observer than it does the underlying reality. Decades of psychological research have shown that.
So, while reality may be more important to some of us, too often the reality is secondary to whatever conclusions people have jumped to based on appearance. So, in the field, appearance wins more often.
2006-08-19 07:36:59
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answered by coragryph 7
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the appearance of reality
2006-08-19 07:25:32
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answer #3
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answered by jyd9999 6
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Reality. Apperance is an illusion. Reality is what will keep you sane.
You get caught up in apperance, you will be just another socalite meandering through the world, trying to escape the fedralis and paparrazi.
At least with reality, it keeps you humble, keeps you pure, and most importantly, keeps you real.
2006-08-19 07:27:23
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answer #4
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answered by Anonymous
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Always reality, the problem with that is these Neocons are mostly sociopaths with no conscience of reality. It's funny you know like on Fantasy Island when the midget Tattoo says "the plane, the plane."
2006-08-19 07:48:15
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answer #5
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answered by Anonymous
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Sadly, the appearance is more important than reality...
It is what it is that compt, but what people think really happened..
2006-08-19 07:30:31
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answered by The Patriot 4
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reality
2006-08-19 07:26:29
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answered by redhotboxsoxfan 6
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reality,
2006-08-19 07:24:47
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answered by Anonymous
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Appearance for mental disturbed people.
Reality for normal people
2006-08-19 07:32:24
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answered by Riccardo L 1
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I always think of asking that question when I see all the lovely mannequins on TBN.
2006-08-19 07:30:04
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answered by Anonymous
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