I love him alot bt he has changed so much....i do tolerate his anger but i feel very bad..i hv cried so much due to this ....and when i say this to him he says i love u very much thts why i m like this n i had told u before i wil be possessive n rude...its dosent matter if he is jobless or nt well off bt when our thinkng is nt alike n so many differences i hv startd to think it wil nt work...bt i feel guilty of leaving him alone when he is jobless..and as 4 my family i hv been a v.good daughter always listend 2 them..bt i dotn buy their idea of marriage at 25..i wnt to focus on my career so i can be strong n independent..i knw i will hurt them by telling them i dont wnt to marry but i knw i m right ...deep down i knw ..so plz help me decide if i should move on from my love n family 2 b wid me or just be in this situation of uncertainity 4ever..m i bad if i think like this ....m i mean wid my family n my love ...i wil b there 4 them 4ever bt i wnt to do something in life...help me
2006-08-19 07:09:53 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
#1 Rule women always forget.... so I will remind you : Take care of you. The end.
2006-08-19 07:15:20 · answer #1 · answered by That's my final answer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a long way to go to be strong and independent.
Why put up with his anger? He's blaming his anger on you; ' I love you very much that's why I am like this.' What a load of crap. He's like that because he hasn't grown up.
He's the type of guy who'll hit you or abuse you and tell you it's all your fault.
Dump the loser and work on yourself.
2006-08-19 07:20:24 · answer #2 · answered by cowgirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. You do what you feel is right in YOUR heart.
2. Your mom & dad has to face it...your old enough to make decisions ...just like they was when they was your age.
3. As for your boyfriend...leave him alone. Hes no good...someone who loves you truly & deeply...isnt possessive or rude to you.....that possessiveness over time could lead to physical abuse.
4. MOVE ON!!!!...this is your choice...your decision and most importanly...YOUR LIFE!!
2006-08-19 07:27:47 · answer #3 · answered by Sugar_Plumzz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Screw that, boot his jobless rude *** to the curb.
2006-08-19 07:18:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋