Do you hate that your guy wants to do this even if he doesn't? What should I do if my girlfriend is thretining to leave me if I look at any other girl? She makes me close my eyes at certain parts in an R movie. I don't want to look but it is in my nature and how I grew up. She wants me to change. All I tell her is "I'll try my best not to look at girls but I can't change the fact that if you were OK with it I would want to." What should I do? Is it me or her?
2006-08-19 07:07:47 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
If my girl told me not to look at a naked chick in a movie I'd just explain to her that I could easily replace her if she annoys me.
2006-08-19 07:14:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Which question do I answer first?
I'll start at the top & work my way down.
No, I'm not that insecure 2 worry about ladies on the TV.
Never tried, guess I've lead a sheltered life.
An R movie? Is that an X-rated Porn bash thing?
No, we don't watch Porn.
Why watch what we can do far better 4 real!
I suggest U put the Porn away & get Busy with UR own un-filmed version 4 a change!
So it's the Both of U.
Fools 2 URselves!
2006-08-19 09:02:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Which question do I answer first? i am going to commence on the right & paintings my way down. No, i'm not that insecure 2 project about females people on the television. via no ability tried, guess i have were given lead a sheltered existence. An R action photo? Is that an X-rated Porn bash ingredient? No, we do not watch Porn. Why watch what we are able to do lots more beneficial perfect 4 genuine! i propose U placed the Porn away & get Busy with UR very personal un-filmed version 4 a change! So it truly is the both one among U. Fools 2 URselves!
2016-11-05 04:24:38 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i hate it when my boyfriend sees nudity in a movie or something and makes comments about it. "look, boobs, where's the boobs." kinda things. there are times when he's made comments than said "but i've got u and u better looking or like urs better." this helps and i know in the end no matter what else happens he's going to be w/ me that night. if ur girlfriend is getting really jealous about this, tell her to trust u and that she can admire how attractive another guy is as well, nothing wrong w/ that. also, try the whole "o she's got nice whatever but urs are better" comments. they'll boost her self-esteem.
2006-08-20 17:19:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm guessing she has trust issues. You need to convince her that even if you look, you are not going to cheat on her. I know it is in a guys nature to look, and I don't mind when my boyfriend does because I am confident he still prefers me. She needs to talk to intelligent women in successful relationships and they will tell her - "It's part of life. Just because he looks, doesn't mean he'll touch" and besides, does she ever oogle over male movie stars??
As far as is it you or her. She's being a typical girl - but that doesn't make it right, all I can say is next time she catches you looking - assure her in ANYWAY you have to, that she's still the one you want.
Good Luck
2006-08-19 07:16:22 · answer #5 · answered by goodlittlegirl11 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I personally am secure enough in my relationship to not care if my BF looks at that stuff. I myself as a woman enjoy porn and reading erotic material. So for me to point the finger at him and get mad at him is being hypocritical. The way i look at it is when all is said and done after the movie and at the end of the night the one I'm with is him. Same reason I don't care if he flirts with other girls or whatnot...it is because I'm secure in my relationship. I think she's got commitment and obsessive issues she needs to work on. So I hope this helps :D
2006-08-19 07:15:52 · answer #6 · answered by a_hennings19 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
For goodness sake girls like this make me mad, doesn't she have the sense to realise that men like to look at naked women, if she won't " allow" you to do it in front of her, you'll do it behind her back. I know which I would prefer. Find a different, more open minded girlfriend.
2006-08-19 09:26:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
No I couldn't care less. It's normal, harmless and fun (I also like looking).
I think your girlfriend is a controlling little vixen and I wouldn't put up with it for one minute.
Once someone starts being controlling, it tends to get worse and worse. Stop it NOW.
2006-08-19 16:54:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would dump her she sounds insecure. If you want to stay with her try pointing out a few out guys to her and see how she behaves. Early on in my relationship with my now husband I knew he liked to look at a pretty girl so I made a game out of finding the girl he would like in a room before he did and pointed her out to him. Then he gets to look. I know he looked and who cares.
2006-08-20 20:20:46 · answer #9 · answered by Becky 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like your girl is very insecure! My hubby looks at nude women on Internet we watch porn together and he often rubber necks attractive well built ladies we pass on streets. Does that upset me of course not! Why should it hes with me! Hes a man he enjoys seeing attractive females just like I enjoy attractive men. Doesn't mean I am going to jump Johnny Depp's bones! It was our attractiveness that got their attention to begin with so the eyes die after you found a BF, hubby etc? No it doesn't! Now to be fair if you know this upsets her then you should make efforts to avoid these kind of situations. All that being said you two should talk she need to know she is your one and only. If she continues to be so insecure, my advice dump her and find someone who wont cause you headaches.
2006-08-19 07:17:35 · answer #10 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋