We were together for about 1 yr 8 months. We broke up about a month ago because we knew we werent meant to be. I was his first girlfriend his first everything. He cant let me go hes always depressed and crying and now starting to have shortness of breath and chest pains....i think he might get an anxiety attack! I dont want to be with him anymore but i feel so bad to see him that way. I try to comfort him but nothing seems to work should i just ignore him?
2006-08-19 06:59:16 · 10 answers · asked by Gloria 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
this can be serious and hard to cope with 4 the both of u, try to help him but let him no that u r only friends, it will take him a long time to get over you but he will one day, this happened to me to and it took my ex about 3 years to get over me, but then he found another women, he made me feel sorry for him all the time, but dont feel like u have to be with him, or feel to bad, i no its hard but he will live, yeah maybe u could get him with another that will love him, some of us will never forget our first no matter what, but take care, an if u r with someone elce please dont let him know about it as this will not help u or him at all ok. look after yourself
2006-08-19 07:12:28 · answer #1 · answered by louise 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to sit down and tell him exactly how u feel. You say the both of you's know that u r not meant for each other then there is something he is not saying. And u need to understand he is the one that is bringing this upon his self if he should have an anxiety attack or what ever. Always remember this never stay with some because u feel sorry He will get over u in time. And if he can accept u as a friend then fine but if he can't then that is his choose
2006-08-19 14:17:01 · answer #2 · answered by lillian r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not ignore him but be careful. u dont want to give him the wrong impression that u still love him by caring about him. Just tell him to see a Doctor he may have something more serious that needs to be checked out
2006-08-19 14:05:51 · answer #3 · answered by Wibble 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want to be with him anymore cut him loose and don't look back. As long as his "attacks" keep you around he will keep having them. He will get over it and move on. If he can't then he's nuts and you REALLY don't need to be with him
2006-08-19 14:10:04 · answer #4 · answered by sugarbritches 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes he needs to be away from you to get over you good luck
2006-08-19 14:08:23 · answer #5 · answered by meow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He needs to get some counselling. FAST!!!
2006-08-19 14:07:44 · answer #6 · answered by winona e 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stick his head in the toilet and flush it.
2006-08-19 14:31:56 · answer #7 · answered by Apollo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him ur a really a guy
2006-08-19 14:13:37 · answer #8 · answered by b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, if you really want to cure him.
2006-08-19 14:06:42 · answer #9 · answered by baheramgor d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Recommend him to yur friend......................
2006-08-19 14:04:50 · answer #10 · answered by Rohit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋