I heard guys liked it with the lights on so yeah I guess it is. :(
2006-08-19 06:51:17 · 20 answers · asked by Rika F 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Silly question. No, it is not a diss. To each their own. Lights on, lights off. There is not a one size fits all here. If he prefers the lights off - great! He's with you right?
2006-08-19 07:23:11 · answer #1 · answered by 'Barn 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it's not a diss. Everyone feels more comfortable doing certain things during sex. Sometimes you want the lights on, other times you want them off. Depending on what type of mood you are in. There are some guys that tend you get turned on with sex by seeing things and others just by feeling. If you don't want the lights off then you got to give him something to look at. Flirt with him, do a strip tease, or have him watch you suck his dick. Sorry to be so graphic but it's true. You have to be open about sex. Let him know what you want. And they always love it when you take charge. Step your game up and be the dominant one for a change.
2006-08-19 07:01:22 · answer #2 · answered by Heather T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No; he may be shy, and embarassed about his body. A lot of guys have kind of low self-esteem where their bodies are concerned. Hey, having the lights off adds a little mystery, yeah? Light a candle or two and see if he objects to that; then maybe you can try a low-wattage lamp with a red cloth over it to give just a dim light, and gradually work up to full lights on.
2006-08-19 06:57:44 · answer #3 · answered by anna 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it is not a dis. Some like the lights off some like them on. Now if all the other girls he has been with he left the lights on and only with you he turns them off that could be a problem.
2006-08-19 06:56:51 · answer #4 · answered by ZCT 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually a guy will turn the lights out if he is self concious. My hubby doesnt care if the lights are on or off as long as he is getting some.
2006-08-19 06:56:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Like many men, he probably has the odd spot on his bum.
Thinking he is alone in this affliction, he prefers to hide it,.
I bet if you were to announce that you had read on Google that 99% off all men had acne-bums, his behaviour would change.
2006-08-19 07:02:40 · answer #6 · answered by dave 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he dosen't want to be the on to get up and turn them off when it's all over.
2006-08-19 07:02:51 · answer #7 · answered by The Beast 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, stop worrying! As long as its not coupled with a crippling fear of being seen with you in public you have nothing to worry about!
2006-08-19 06:58:27 · answer #8 · answered by n i k k i 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, not unless you take it that way. Just ask him about it, gently. Maybe, and I'm guessing here, he's insecure about his body?
2006-08-19 06:57:38 · answer #9 · answered by Mr. Versatile 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depending on the mood but i wound't call it a diss
2006-08-19 06:57:16 · answer #10 · answered by aznflippgurl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋