My best friend had sex with a boy when no one was home and what should i do? SHould i keep it a secret of tell my mom or hers
2006-08-19 06:49:46 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Stay out of it. Why should you tell on either of them. That's their business
2006-08-19 06:53:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is normal for teenagers to have sex. At this point I would not get involved. I would talk to her about why she did it, if she was coerced or pressured into it by the bf, his friends, or her friends. I think that you are upset that she did it because she ignored your advice not to have sex, since she did, and you might be upset that it happened at your house and that you would be responsible, but you aren't. What are you supposed to do? Get a knife and stab the bf to stop them from having sex? If your mother finds out, just get upset and tell her you were scared and you didn't know what to do, that is the truth.
2006-08-19 14:00:01 · answer #2 · answered by want it bad 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Discuss it with you mom. It obviously bothers you and this is the type of thing you shouldn't hold in (because of stress among many other things). You know the possible consequences and what you do NOT want is a surprise for your parents. It's up to your parents whether to tell hers or not. That is something I would NOT do because it may get into a "she said-I said" controversy and cause a myriad of other problems.
2006-08-19 14:00:07 · answer #3 · answered by snddupree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your realy worried about your friend, then tell her mother where she keeps her diary. Thats what a friend of mine did to me and it pretty much saved my life. No lie. If she dosnt keep a diary then you should find some other way of annomisly letting her mom know. If your not worried and you think shes being mature about it and that shes mature enough to be having sex then let it be.
2006-08-19 14:20:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your friend is young and shouldn't be doing those things then tell your mom. She'll tell what to do next.
2006-08-19 14:34:15 · answer #5 · answered by ChemicallyLaneyyy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on your friend's country/culture, family, AGE, etc. In some countries it's normal but in some others it's a sin.
2006-08-19 14:15:24 · answer #6 · answered by Neeku 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No that is normal. She is not an adult and should not have been having sex no where. Tell a parent.
2006-08-19 13:56:12 · answer #7 · answered by Coast2CoastChat.com 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes its normal... you should keep it a secret but if she is pregnant tell your mom and she will do the rest...
2006-08-19 15:03:17 · answer #8 · answered by MILKCHOCOLATE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her mom, only a best friend can do that kinda stuff its for the best trust me.
2006-08-19 13:53:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If this is even an issue, you are way too young to be having SEX in the first place. jmho
2006-08-19 14:22:29 · answer #10 · answered by jeep.mama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋