I have a great boyfriend.he's the best i mean he's sweet and everything else but he's shy and i hate that.Last year we had many classes together and we always sat together and didn't wanna be apart but this year we only have one class together but he isn't like that he sits in front of me and the other day i kicked his chair and he turned around and when i said i love u he said it so quickly i din't even understand and over the fone he does the same thing i don't know what's wrong.I almost broke up with him but if i do i'll hurt my self cuz i honestly think we are perfect together but i have a feeling that he doesn't feel likr that about me even though he says he does.I know i would hurt him if i broke up with him and i would hurt myself and i mean he doesn't even want to hug me well he does but he's TOO SHY!It gets me mad and my friends are starting to tell me that he doesn't even act like he's with me and that i should get sum1 better but i tell them no.Should i break up with him??
2006-08-19 06:40:50 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I've tried talking to him but he says that over the phone things are great and he has no preblem...but he said in school he feels like its not right and i said maybe we're not right and he said don't say that i'm shy because in school i see u and ur so pretty that i get nervous and think i might say sumthing stupid...i said i didn't care if he did as long as he tried not to be shy he's trying but he's not really
2006-08-19 06:57:17 · update #1
DOnt be silly hun. Good guys are hard to come by. If you honestly feel that you two are perfect for each other, than you should be able to overlook this personality trait of his. If you can't get past his shyness, let him go. You not loving him for who he is is not fair to him. You sound young so breaking up will not be the end of the world for either of you.
2006-08-19 14:10:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he is really shy and it is nothing else then i would say no do not break up with him. He will come around and eventually be more comfortable showing his affection.
On the other hand it could be that he is not showing his affection becuz he does not feel the same way to you as u do to him. Maybe he doesn't love you. Has that crossed your mind?
Hopefully it's just a case of being shy. Good luck
2006-08-19 06:47:56 · answer #2 · answered by Wibble 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So what if he's shy, you are not get over it!!! Being shy is not a good reason to break up with someone. Maybe he just doesn't like public displays of affection. If you yourself can't deal with it then maybe he's not what you need and you aren't getting what you need then if that's the case then he deserves better and so do you.
2006-08-19 06:47:26 · answer #3 · answered by smart_2b_blonde 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no don't do that have a talk w/ him and ask y he is shy im shy sometimes to and evn in school some people don't like saying i luv u cuz othr people will say awwww how sweet and stuff like that all u need is a talk do not break up w/ him trust me i have been to the point
2006-08-19 06:48:19 · answer #4 · answered by staryeyes96 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok do u see him after school, do u go out on dates, is he shy then, if he's only shy in school, then its peer probleums, and you need to work though it, just be glad he think ur to good for him lol. that means a lest he wont cheat, or talk down at you, or many many other things girls on here ask about......so just work though it......u dont breck up because he a little shy, u breck up cause he's hitting you, or cheating on you, or calling you a loser and things like that...not because he shy
2006-08-19 07:05:35 · answer #5 · answered by truthfinder1960 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm, did it ever occur to you to ask him hey whats up? try that if he says he is fine tell him your concerns. Although let me ask how old are you since you are in school I would guess you are in highschool and lets just say he will not be your first or last love. People grow and change maybe he has out grown you!
2006-08-19 06:49:15 · answer #6 · answered by Injunswife 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he did not supply you the $ninety piece of jewellery for you yet, then i might want to signify you split with him earlier he supplies it to you. you may want to sit down him down someplace quiet and only enable him recognize how you're feeling and clarify why you do not favor to be his female friend anymore. Do it properly/gently so optimistically he received't be too torn, reason all of us have thoughts, good? make sure you enable him recognize you had a large number of interesting with him and that he's impressive or w/e yet you purely won't be able to be with him anymore. G'success. :)
2016-11-05 04:21:47 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well just talk2 him about it... he might not want his freinds 2 find out cuz he is afraid of gossip and then losing u 4 good... or he might not feel the same 4 u it jkust depends... talk 2 the guy and c whats wrong! ! !
2006-08-19 06:47:42 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before you break up a good thing, which is not easy to find, sit him down and talk it out quietly, holding on to your temper, and listen when he speaks, as he will if he is at ease.
2006-08-19 06:46:53 · answer #9 · answered by helixburger 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people in life are shy and don't display their emotions openly. Either you accept him as he is or you listen to your friends and let them control your love life. Which is it gonna be?
2006-08-19 06:48:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋