2006-08-19 06:19:59 · 26 answers · asked by dhrew 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
Why does it matter? Unless you are gay or a homophobe it shouldn't be an issue. Gone are the easy detection of the flamboyant homosexuals. In this case, don't worry about it unless he/she makes a pass at you.
I prefer to not know about my co-workers sexual orientation, because I get uncomfortable around gays. No, I don't think all gay men want me! I just don't want anything being construed as an interest from me or from him. The same way when it is a woman I am not attracted to.
If you want to know just be a man about it and ask. If he's straight he'll be offended and sock you in the eye!
Good Luck!
2006-08-19 06:34:47 · answer #1 · answered by Grown Man 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you interested in him? Are you 2 close enough to ask him? Are you willing to accept the answer and not change your feelings for this person? If you are not interested in him and just want to know ask yourself why? What will knowing mean to you and what will telling you mean for him? These are all the most important ?'s you need answered 1st (by yourself).
2006-08-19 13:30:07 · answer #2 · answered by PROUDJEW 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't generally tell who is or is not gay and why does it matter? Can you tell who likes the missionary position or who likes S and M or threesomes or whatever? It should not be an issue at all in the workplace.
2006-08-19 13:27:34 · answer #3 · answered by norsktjej1964 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why on earth do you care? Is it important for gays to know what straights do in the bedroom? I get tired of seeing this question. No matter who you are your sex life is your own private and personal business.
2006-08-19 13:49:50 · answer #4 · answered by el 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
By asking him and hearing his answer. If you think he is in "the closet", then spy on him! Listen in on his personal calls, read his journal, talk to some of his friends and family, follow him home from work! I don't encourage spying, but it is the only way that I know would be effective. Also, look for rainbows in his area.
2006-08-19 13:26:59 · answer #5 · answered by UVRay 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if he rubs his hands along your thigh??..why do you care? r u gay and want to date him but don't know if he swings that way or r u just a homophobic jerk that wants to know something that's not any of your business??..any way i guess if he doesn't ever hit on you then the only Way to know is if you ask him & he prob. wont be offended unless he's not gay!
2006-08-19 13:22:58 · answer #6 · answered by CRYSTAL S 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Talk to him about gay issues and see how he reacts.
2006-08-19 14:05:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just keep one nice hot chick with you for a moment. And note down that is he watching the chick or you. Haa haa haa
2006-08-19 13:25:34 · answer #8 · answered by ankit c 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
you normally expect nice guy.If you behace or he behaves in a diffrent manner you may report against him or if you behave other wise you will be fired ,
2006-08-19 13:27:49 · answer #9 · answered by Bhahagyam 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Probably by the way he walks, talks and dresses. If still in doubt, ASK HIM!
2006-08-19 13:24:22 · answer #10 · answered by Ignoramus 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋