Im ok with it if i am.but how do i know?
2006-08-19 06:17:10 · 16 answers · asked by gothix_barbie 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Don't worry about sticking a label on yourself. If you are interested in dating a woman, by all means do so. You will figure out, as time goes, what works for you.
2006-08-19 06:43:40 · answer #1 · answered by knightofsappho 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Asking questions about your sexuality doesn't mean you couldn't be gay, it could mean that you just arent sure about your feelings. If you are attracted to females, physically and emotionally you are considered gay. I'm assuming that you have previously been in relationships with men. You said that you are "ready for a relationship" with a woman but I would advize you not to jumo into that so quickly. Treat dating women the same as you would a guy. Test the field, get to know people, have fun, etc. Don't run to women just because you have had a bad time with men. Some women are just as bad in relationships as men. Be careful and good luck.
2006-08-19 06:40:23 · answer #2 · answered by tweetybird3083 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
are you attracted to women in a sexual sense?
have you ever had an enjoyable bi or homosexual experiance?
there are a lot of questions that only you can answer with this one, but if the thought of being in a relationship with a woman makes you happy, go for it!!!
it may be that you're bisexual.(much like myself)
i enjoy the pleasures a man can offer, but i also enjoy the pleasures of women.
if you have a close female friend who is up for some experimenting, have fun, see what you like and if this lifestyle is one to your liking.
p.s. don't jump into a relationship. you may not be ready for one just yet.
2006-08-19 08:38:38 · answer #3 · answered by mistressmorro 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about figuring it out, labeling yourself, or telling others. Do what feels right to you as long as it doesn't involve hurting yourself or others.
You may also want to check out:
Is It a Choice? - 2nd edition: Answers to 300 of the Most Frequently Asked Questions About Gays and Lesbian People
Just remember to take care of yourself.
2006-08-22 07:51:58 · answer #4 · answered by reoh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you prefer intimate relations with women and women excite you sexually, then you're attracted to women. Don't worry about labels. If the right person comes along, be they male or female go for them. Just open up your bedroom eyes to the fairer sex and good luck!
2006-08-20 03:27:19 · answer #5 · answered by carora13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are gay you would know. Since you need to ask so many questions of yourself I would guess you are not. I think society has too many people constantly questioning their own sexuality now. If you are gay that's fine, but don't start wondering because of things you have seen on television, etc. Just be with who you end up loving, make it simple.
2006-08-19 06:29:00 · answer #6 · answered by el 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
you only live once and until you find your purpose in life with the lord enjoy your life if you want to be with women and see i say go for it. and yes their are signs the first one is asking this question maybe your attracted to women sexually have a 3 some and see what your prefer and if its still both do both its your life baby just live
2006-08-19 06:25:22 · answer #7 · answered by firered 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well i don't know.. thats something confusing that you really got to think about..your the only one thats gonna know..you could think that you are gay and your not and you could think that your gay and you might be...just remember that if you think a girl is cute , it doesn't mean your a lesbian...but i heard on tv and stuff that gay people know it because they always felt it since they were little and stuff... i don't really now much but i hope i helped a litttle.just remeber to stay true to yourself
2006-08-19 06:32:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Get into a lesbian relationship and see if that's what you are really comfortable with.
2006-08-20 12:49:27 · answer #9 · answered by Scully 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you like guys? Lesbian usually is female exclusive otherwise your Bi. Just remember a guy can do almost every to a girl that a girl can except for you give c_n__l__g_s &you don't get to do fellatio, maybe one more???
Just be honest and open to your guy. Like help him!
2006-08-19 08:06:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋