ok, I know I'm ready for sex because I have been with him for 3 years and we're getting married in about a month. The thing is (excuse the wording please) I want to rock his world. He's had sex before and I haven't and really don't know what to do or what to expect. I know he won't care if I'm not the best because he loves me, but that doesn't keep me from wanting to be the BEST. So, any advice on things your men like or any websites or anything would be helpful. Thanks.
2006-08-19 05:57:35 · 9 answers · asked by Danielle 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
You'll get better with practice don't worry. Just be open to explore options and your sex life will be great. Love conquers all.
2006-08-19 06:02:31 · answer #1 · answered by Tommy Boy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
rent some porn, take mental notes. Try reading books, with illustrations on Kama Sutra (the art of making love) My husband and I have used some techniques of the Kama Sutra and found it to be very satisfying. Also, I am a firm believer that a woman must know her own body and what pleases it before any man can figure it out. So, hopefully I am not too bold in suggesting masturbation. You will move your body and guide his body towards what makes you feel good. It will be awkward at first. It always is, but after time, you will learn each others desires and know just what to do. Maybe since you are a virgin, let him take the lead, if he is an experienced lover, he will know what to do and he wont expect you to be an expert your first time.
2006-08-19 13:08:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in the exact same boat, I was really nervous my first time. But then I thought of something that made me laugh. You know the song by Marvin Gaye 'Lets Get It On'? Thats such a cheesy and cliche of a song to play while having sex that I put it on when the time came which cut the tension in me and made me laugh and my guy thought it was funny also....so try that!
2006-08-19 13:24:36 · answer #3 · answered by Led*Zep*Babe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you only have a month to go until getting married I would wait until your wedding night. it will make it that much more special.
you may not like the idea, but I think you should start watching a lot of porn to prepare yourself. it will show you a lot of the different positions and things to do. It will atleast give you a general idea of what to expect.
2006-08-19 13:12:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to be honest with each other. if something is uncomfortable with you then let him know dont let yr partner dominate you on sexual issues. you have to both enjoy what yr doing so if yr not ready for certain things let him know. that way you will enjoy what yr doing more. if you love each other you will explore each other. in time you will learn this and more.
2006-08-19 13:04:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you've waited for marriage, you've already given him the greatest gift you could. Just relax and try not to be too nervous. It will be wonderful for him just because your there. Congratulations, and good luck.
2006-08-19 13:06:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you go to a book store/library and see what you can find??? There will be lots of in formation there. Have fun!!!
2006-08-19 13:05:21 · answer #7 · answered by winona e 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i will tell you what will happen: FUN
you will fun..you will have a great time exploring oneanother bodies..believe me it is a great fun,,no need to be nervous about..
2006-08-19 13:15:53 · answer #8 · answered by qwerty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't worry too much about it,
he'd teach you how to become the best when the time comes :D
2006-08-19 13:13:09 · answer #9 · answered by Spidergurl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋