i have a best frnd. she is very sensitive. she loves her bro very much and when both of them fight she cries overnight. she wants to take up all the tensions. she also cries overnight when she remembers her past be4 me. she has had many downs in her life as far as frnds r concerned. how can i help her to overcome her sensitivity?
plz help it is very imp.
2006-08-19 05:38:21 · 12 answers · asked by Adi 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
hey der.... friends are very precious to find and friendship difficult to loose especially wit ppl like u who r so concerned...
try to tell her that der is someone who is takin care of all of us and wat evr happens, happens for the good so believe in him as we are among the lucky ones who have so many opportunities as compare to a few not all that much blessed...so keep smiling as this life is very small to be sad abt anything...so love living each moment u breadth...who knows wen it stops...remember forgive n deserve to be forgiven....
2006-08-19 06:55:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a friend, you could talk to her about her sensitivity. There could be another reason why she breaks down and cries other than what you've just described. The best thing I think you can do as a friend is to have her see a professional- if she wants to do that. It could give her an opportunity to really find out why is she a very sensitive person. When a person is sensitive, they can be taken advantage of so make sure that doesn't happen. I hope my advice helps and good luck to you.
2006-08-19 05:44:41 · answer #2 · answered by Lady S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-17 13:37:11 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she probably needs to see a psychologist. not the religious ones from church but the real deal. she has super guilt problems when in confrontational situations, then she is upset when someone is mad at her. i bet people kind of boss her around and put her down. she probably has an inferiority complex. when she is right she still feels bad. her past is her past and all she can do is live her life going forward the correct way.
remember, those without sin cast the first stone.
2006-08-19 05:51:29 · answer #4 · answered by lou 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Become a good friend of hers.
She may be too sensitive to all situations.
She has to practice meditation rather than medication and psychological consultations.
Share her pain and joy.
Females are inclined to cry or laugh without reason. You have to be deaf and dumb sometimes.
She knows how to take care of her self.
2006-08-19 05:53:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just talk to her i mean if she cries if everytime sumone says sumthin to her people are gonna walk all over her. Get her to take her anger out on sumthing else instead of cryin. I know this may sound corny but get her to exercise, run, play basketball (any fast pase sport) start sweat just sumthing she can get her anger out on. Believe it or not it works.
2006-08-19 05:46:17 · answer #6 · answered by way more than you bargin for 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tire to make her feel happy. become her more good frnd. tell not to take so much tension it will not be good for her health. everything will become fine just relax. take her out, see some movies, deviate her mind
2006-08-19 06:04:05 · answer #7 · answered by richa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u shld talk to her.U shld make her believe that u 'll always be there 4 her to help.
2006-08-19 06:53:17 · answer #8 · answered by Coolgal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her know that Jesus is her best friend. He won't hurt her or make her cry. He loves her unconditionally.
2006-08-19 05:45:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
show her the meaning of life and how lovely it is...
2006-08-19 08:22:32 · answer #10 · answered by gaWjus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋