I'm entering my 3rd year of college but sometimes i feel like I'm going into my 3rd year of high school. I am a large woman (very tall and not exactly skinny) and I still feel uncomfortable around all the little skinny chicks at myt school. Does anybody else sometimes feel this way? And for the guys out there? How come nobody wants to date a big girl? I'm not disgusting or ugly just wondering what the hang-up is...
2006-08-19 05:38:03 · 18 answers · asked by Nikki7012 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Men like to feel dominate, that's their problem, but God will send you a man that's LOVING and could care less who's dominate. As far as how you feel, that's a personal issue you have to tackle, people of the same and opposite sex are more attracted to being friends with people who are self confident. Work what you have, feel good about yourself, and people will be drawn to you. But if you act insecure and kinda skulk into a room people will never acknowledge you. Let your personality shine. Get comfortable in your skin, you'll have to wear it for a lifetime!
2006-08-19 05:47:47 · answer #1 · answered by Shirley Temper 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My grandfather was a little Irish man, about 5'7". Grandmother was a strapping German woman who stood a head taller than he, and they were happy as clams. As a result of having grown up around them, I married a girl the same height I am, 6', (this was back in the 60s) and didn't think of it being unusual in the least. Now days, however, people, men and women alike, due to advertising and movies, are completely preoccupied with girls looking like they haven't had a decent meal recently. Somehow the fact that Tom Cruise has to stand on a box to look dominant gets lost somewhere. All that's no reason to give up, though. Some guy will come along who's not impressed with the latest trends in body style and things will pick up for you. Be patient.
2006-08-19 06:14:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There rather isn't something incorrect with being heavier, I mean decrease back interior the 1700 thousands thats what human beings enjoyed because of the fact it develop into seen that the greater the girth, the greater healthy the guy. yet situations substitute and now its the alternative. Theres no longer something incorrect with who you're or what you look like, theres a project with usa's image project. Alot of adult males bypass after skinny females because of the fact thats all they have seen all there lives as being sexy. Whats rather sexy is hi suitable, in case you have a solid innovations and a brilliant character then you certainly could desire to be super. yet heavily do no longer enable the jerk adult males who concentration on the psychical ideals and injury your day, merely be who you're and revel on your existence!
2016-12-11 11:32:37 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why go out with someone who is overweight when there are so many slender people to date. I personally don't like seeing an overweught person nude or even possibly nude. Don't need to see the cottage cheese thighs, fat rolls and stretch marks. Not much of a turn-on!
Don't play the arguement that its what's on the inside that matters. If I have to be seen with someone in public they're going to have to be attractive and compliment my reputation.
2006-08-19 06:10:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a cousin whose big like in the same sense..trust me, the older you get the more comfortable you get. Its PERFECTLY NORMAL.
Guys at that age are dumb ( i swear ) so just love yourself for who you are.. surely you will get the perfect boyfren..anyway, i think its an advantage, see it like this..if you were short, most probably you wud end up with some short guy ( lol ) so since ur tall and big, you will get some tall strong guy..mmm lol so chill out babez and have fun ! ;) also those "dumb" trying-to-be smart n all those wannabe chicks wont mess around with you then.. hehe
tc ..cheers !!
2006-08-19 05:50:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing with being a girl. The problem is that people judge you based on your outside appearance instead of your inward appearand. Don't worry about it. The right one will come along. I didn't date while I was in college. It's no big deal.
2006-08-19 05:43:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't even worry about it. Smile, walk tall, enjoy yourself, enjoy life, ignore all the small-minded people. An intelligent, confident man will notice your smile, not your body. There is something for EVERYONE. Not all men are attracted to skinny petite girls.
2006-08-19 05:49:33 · answer #7 · answered by Gabi 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your self estem sounds like it is low pick it up and if you want to you can walk three times a week or join the nesarest gym. look in the mirror and how do you see yourself. I you know that you are not fat and look good don't worry bout what other have to say and what they look like. most guys like big girls but dont wont to talk to them cause they afraid of what there boys may so
2006-08-19 05:46:19 · answer #8 · answered by nunaberry98 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
we are all different sizes,shape and form. if you are feeling uncomfortable about yourself search a good site on diets and health. the important thing is that your healthy and comfortable with yourself. and love doesn't come along just the next day when it happens for it will be with someone who loves you for you and nothing else matters. good luck to you.
2006-08-19 05:51:23 · answer #9 · answered by sexydiabla592 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because people are stupid, superficial, and men are to worried their friends will rag on them for liking big women. Personally I prefer a big woman, as her outlook on life is usually better thant he self-centered, self-absorbed skinnier women. Just hang in there, be happy with yourself and the guys willc oem to you. Trust me on this one, we even have clubs here in FL dedicated specifically to larger women and us men who like tham.
Just my 2 cents worth
2006-08-19 06:38:20 · answer #10 · answered by capbarrow2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋