Ok heres the thing. I just started High School last Wensday. Ive never really had a boyfriend and would like one. Ok but heres the thing its not that im ugly im just not drop dead georgouse and im not really tiny. So how do I get guys to notice me at my school I really wanna have someone to go to the dances with. PLEASE HELP
2006-08-19 05:29:14 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
When I was in high school I had the same problem. I was never a popular cheerleader that the boys all liked and I was a little on the hefty side. Overtime I started being outspoken and quit being so shy and it helped alot. So don't be afraid to talk to all the kids in your class and make yourself noticeable, there are a lot of kids in your school now that you don't know so now is a good time to make the change and be noticed. Maybe think about joining drama it will give you lots of confidence and those kids are always outgoing and willing to give people a chance.
2006-08-19 09:34:04 · answer #1 · answered by mommy2B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
opps im sorry! i accidentally hit the down arrow to give you a bad vote when i was trying to hit answer question button, im sorry. =(
well you dont need a boyfriend to ask you to a dance it could just be a guy friend that can ask you. i never had a boyfriend while i was in high school bu talot of my guy friends would ask me (lol i never even went to a high school dance! not even my proms or homecomings, i sorta regret it now that i think about it =( ). plus you can always ask them to the dance too. but if they say no then dont let it get to you, hes just a JERK then, unless he already has a date. i think what guys like is confidence in a woman and hgih self esteem, but other than that just be yourself! dont try dressing a certain way or acting in a way you dont like. its your first week of school you all are still getting to know eachother dont worry about it. maybe you acn talk to a guy that sits close to you in class? dont worry abotu anything just make the right choices, get good grade and no sex, drugs, or partying! =)
2006-08-19 12:55:07 · answer #2 · answered by laa dee da 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to the guys and be friendly, Guys a lot of time like girls that are friendly but not to forward.
A lot of girls just starting High School have never had a boyfriend, it is no big deal, you have a lot of time in front of you and will probably date a lot if you want to before it is over with.
2006-08-19 12:36:33 · answer #3 · answered by sweet smile 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be friendly. Be a class act in your dress (no sl*tty stuff) and your actions. Hold high standards so you get high class guys. Ask 'em out if you want. You'll be surprised at who will say yes. The best looking guys and the classiest guys don't get asked out any more than do the best looking and classiest girls.
2006-08-19 13:20:58 · answer #4 · answered by snddupree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first u should tell the boy that you like that you really like him and that you would like to go to a dance with him. it really doesn't matter if you drop dead gorgeous or not. all you need is your confidence and you can get anybody that sees that
2006-08-19 12:53:28 · answer #5 · answered by NAKIYA C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok first you know tell someone you like.Even if you don't know him.Tell him if he want's to go to the dance with you.If he says no,just tell him give you a c.hance
2006-08-19 12:37:34 · answer #6 · answered by LA Streets2007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be yourself, talk to guys join groups in this way you can be notice
2006-08-19 12:53:48 · answer #7 · answered by flower_roxy101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aproach them first. Don't wait for them.
2006-08-19 12:51:47 · answer #8 · answered by expecting_1_31_2007 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be nice, yourself, and friendly.
2006-08-19 13:01:05 · answer #9 · answered by Jim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be nice smile alot
2006-08-19 13:19:02 · answer #10 · answered by fashionistaqt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋