We have been together over 6 years and I have no reason to believe he has ever cheated yet I am still paranoid. I accuse him of cheating or a desire to ( AND CALL IT JOKING ). Then when he gets angry I ask him why are you angry? I was only joking he is still upset. I have only done this 20 or so times in the 6 years we've been together ,why can he not see the fun and humor in accusing him of cheating on me ( again and again). He is upset by this sort of thing pretty much every time I do it . When will he think having accusations directed at him is fun and humerous. After all (I AM ONLY JOKING).
2006-08-19 05:29:00 · 5 answers · asked by foxyraley 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Foxy,
Why after 6 years would you still be so insecure in you relationship that you have to accuse him of cheating? Then have the gall to say "I'm just joking." Maybe you want him to cheat so that you have an excuse to get out of the relationship and then put the blame on him. If you love and trust him GROW UP!!!Those kinds of jokes are not funny.
2006-08-19 06:15:09 · answer #1 · answered by Boxcars 2 · 5⤊ 0⤋
The reason he still gets mad is because that's not funny to joke about something he wouldn't do to you. You really should try to convince yourself that he hasn't cheated on you why would he do it now. I hope this helps.
2006-08-19 12:55:30 · answer #2 · answered by mandi88_bailey05_ray 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are the kind of woman that gives women a bad name. Not all men/husbands cheat. Besides when someone says, "I'm just joking..." they actually aren't joking they just don't want to deal with the consequences of their actions. And this way they can say, "Hey I am just joking."
2006-08-19 12:40:12 · answer #3 · answered by doc 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You do it for the same reason I do it. He probably is cheating. I have yet to ever meet a man who does not cheat on there wife. I dont blame the men I blame the women because I know there species how can they hurt another woman like that grrrrr. pisses me off just to think about it.
2006-08-19 12:36:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
One day, the joke will be on YOU.
2006-08-19 12:38:19 · answer #5 · answered by bea 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋