why is it that people dont have the balls to be upfront, and tell.....?

Question

I hate it when people dont have the balls to be upfront about things...i always tell it like it is, do you tell it like it is, or am i wrong to be this way, the best answer gets 10points.

Answer 1

Everyone knows that the best answer gets 10 points, so theres no need to lure for answer...sorry, just being upfront.

Answer 2

I have a friend who's like this; meaning she'll just tell me that a color doesnt look good on me or bluntly say aloud.. "Didn't you wear that last year at this event?" Really... in my view, I dont like it when people are too straight-forward all the time. If you want someone to know something, there is always a way to tell them privately. That is, if its something they wouldnt like to be called out about in front of people. Basically, if you cannot say it nicely, tell them privately. (Pull them over to a side and let them know how you felt about something, but say that you just wanted to be honest and didnt want to say something to them in front of people)
It depends on what you're being upfront about. I'm not saying it's a bad thing to be upfront, it makes you real, which is a good thing. People like to know the truth about themselves.. and if you can help make that clear (but not in a rude way) then you should. I'm sure you're a nice person, so that shouldnt be a problem. G*luck! =)

Answer 3

I like to say it exactly like it is...and i really appreciate people who are upfront cause they don't mess around with someone's feelings...they are just straight and to the point...

Unfortunately, many people don't tell it like it is...and it ends up hurting people more than if they were upfront in the first place...

Answer 4

most people are weak & cant handle the truth much less tell it, i call it like i see it & appreciate that quality in others