2006-08-19 05:10:58 · 35 answers · asked by old me... past sucks 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Don't do anything. It won't be worth it!!!!
2006-08-19 06:41:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Reread your own question about 10 times. It's a mega contradiction. Being happily married and being seriously attracted to a married man just cannot be put in the same sentence.
Seriously go ASAP to your local yellow pages and find yourself a marriage counselor. You do not have to go with your husband. Go alone and talk this thing out with a PRO.
Good Luck.
2006-08-19 05:19:00 · answer #2 · answered by ParaUnNormal 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Happily married and into another guy is a contradiction in terms, sweetie! Sounds like you have a problem so don't make your problem other peoples problem. Stay away from the married guy and figure out why you are really unhappy in your own marriage and try to fix yourself. Leave him alone.....and stop making a fool out of yourself!
2006-08-19 05:17:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You answered your own question in the first line: I'm married happily.
If you wish to remain married happily, and to not become known as the person who broke up TWO marriages, then zip up your pants and get a grip on reality. You don't need to know if he's into you, and you don't need to do anything except to focus on your own marriage.
2006-08-19 05:17:25 · answer #4 · answered by My Evil Twin 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wait, you just said your were happily married, why do you want to find out if he is interested. I sure wouldn't do that if I wanted to stay happily married, in fact I would stay away from him as much as possible.
2006-08-19 05:20:08 · answer #5 · answered by sweet smile 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you really really happy with your marriage? If you are you wouldn't want to find out what you should and shouldn't do about your married friend. I've been in this predicament a few times...its just LUST trust me. You find him attractive because you think he's got something to offer you that your husband can't. Trust me, he's just another guy. Stick with your husband and love him like you would want to love that guy. There's nothing wrong with fantasizing, but there is something wrong with cheating. I would stay away. Stay friends, but stay away from temptation, you'll be the one to get hurt deeply.
2006-08-19 05:19:26 · answer #6 · answered by missbehave252002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely nothing. I made the mistake of having an affair on my husband of less than 4 years. I feel totally different. I wish I could make myself the way I was when we first got married. You do it once, you're going to want to try all the time, with different me. I hope I just get back to normal and put it all behind me.
2006-08-19 05:17:54 · answer #7 · answered by Shouldi 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sometimes in marriage, things might get monotonous after a while and we'd become attracted to other people as it feels like something fresher and more exciting..
statistics show that those who leave their marriage for another someone tends to get divorce later again.
so think carefully whether your love for your husband is worth more than this attraction that appears to be love between you and this married friend. it can be only pure infactuation which.. goes up as fast as it comes down and you gonna regret everything if that's the case.
2006-08-19 05:22:08 · answer #8 · answered by Spidergurl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u can't be happily married if your looking to hook up with some one else. well if he smiles every time u walk in than u know he like u. u see man married that's not happy will always show it and if he like s some one Else he will show it with a nice warm smile.
2006-08-19 05:22:49 · answer #9 · answered by scottyirish 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are really happily married, why would it matter? And as s/he is married as well, why would him being into you be a consideration? Don't do anything to jeapordize two marriages. Go and give your husband/wife a hug and count your many blessings.
2006-08-19 05:16:21 · answer #10 · answered by confused 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
LOL UR HAPPILY MARRIED???????????? LMAO U HAVE NO CLUE WHAT IT TAKES TO BE MARRIED.. YOUR AN IMMATURE IDIOT THATS WANTING TO PLAY WITH FIRE.. GO REVIEW THE MARRIAGE VOWS U TOOK PLEASE SHOW ME WHERE IT SAYS LOVE HONOR AND SEE IF THE MARRIED FRIEND IS INTO ME LOL.. U HAVE NO RESPECT FOR MARRIAGE, NOT URS AND NOT UR MARRIED FRIEND, YOUR A LOW LIFE THAT WILL HAVE HER AZZ HANDED TO HER ONE DAY AND THEN UR GOING TO WONDER WHAT HAPPENED AND ARE GOING TO TRY AND PLAY THE MARTYR .. GROW UP STOP BEING A HOMEWRECKER NOT ONLY TO UR OWN MARRIAGE BUT TO UR FRIENDS MARRIAGE TOO.. IDIOT
2006-08-19 05:19:17 · answer #11 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋