One of the ques. prompted me but because of circumstances, my wife is allowed to seek occasional satisfaction outside our marriage. I was just wondering about other couples out there who do the same or have thought of doing the same.
PLEASE, NO JUDGMENTS OR LECTURES FROM THE BIBLE-THUMPING CROWD!
2006-08-19 05:04:08 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I don't but I think if it's a mutual thing and everyone is in agreement and it's not hurting anyone, whatever blows your skirt up, Dude, is ok. I couldn't do it personally, but there are alot of people that live like that. I know a few. Seems to work for them. I think it's better than going from partner/to partner/ to partner without a supportive ongoing relationship. good Luck.
2006-08-19 05:11:42 · answer #1 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This is not a judgment.
I'd think twice about this. If she were to contact STD's what then. If she found someone more compatible to her.
Better in bed than you.
Makes more money or offered her a better way of life.
If it were me and I had an affair with a man and he said I was worth more to him than letting other men possess my body for nothing more than pleasure I think I would sit back and take a good long look at this man. I like physical contact as well as any woman out there but part of the thrill is knowing my partner and I share love and trust with each other.
2006-08-19 12:19:42 · answer #2 · answered by sassywv 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know several couples that do this or have done this for a variety of reasons. Have first hand knowledge if you like to discuss details. Important to work out guidelines depending on the situation you are in. Can be very erotic
2006-08-19 12:12:18 · answer #3 · answered by JoeP 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I couldn't be in such a marriage. There's too many diseases and wackos out there. Do you not satisfy your wife or do you not have time for her? You're okay knowing that someone else is intimate with her and giving her pleasure? I made a commitment when I got married to honor my husband and remain faithful...bottom line.
2006-08-19 12:13:41 · answer #4 · answered by Moxie Crimefighter 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh God, I thought I was the only one who ever gave some serious thought to that!!!
It's not like I don't love my husband, it's just that after he cheated on me, I've been wondering what is it that people look outside marriage, and I want to try it for myself...
2006-08-19 12:16:20 · answer #5 · answered by verazue 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is your personal choice and decision. why r u bothered about others. if u and your wife feel comfortable with your adjustments well go ahead and make whatever decision you want. if both of u have agreed to it then what is the problem ? nobody is going to live your life.it is your life and u can live it as u like it.
2006-08-19 12:18:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not married but if you're both ok with the arrangement, then more power. I would think some rules would be necessary, though.
2006-08-19 12:11:32 · answer #7 · answered by randyken 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Indecent proposal!
2006-08-19 12:15:19 · answer #8 · answered by aquarian 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good for you. You are a very understanding husband. But I don't think most women can be like you.
2006-08-19 12:11:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
as long as your marriage is strong and there is no jealousy, than do whatever makes you both happy. screw what the general pub lic thinks.
2006-08-19 12:12:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋