There are a lot!! of bi chicks at my school, and I was hoping this year maybe I could get with one of them. Do you think it's possible??? also, do you ask them out or does that make you look like a dyke. cause thats not what I aim for. I dunno I'm just emersing myself in music women and darkness, maybe I should get some perscribed pills for this lol. But really what do you do??
2006-08-19 05:03:50 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
you dont need pills hunny.. you are a normal curious young woman.
as for asking girls, that might make both of you feel akward.
that would normally be something that would just happen, unless you get yourself in a comfortable situation where you know the other girl is interested.
try a sleep over with someone you have a hunch about being curious like you.. watch a girlie movie, do eachothers hair, try on clothes and see where things go
2006-08-19 05:10:04 · answer #1 · answered by nicoles1504 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you into 'darkness"? You sound depressed. Have you spoken to anyone aout your feelings? High school is hard enough with making it any harder.
If you are bicurious, get to meet some of the other girls and just talk to them. Put off the sexual intimacy for a while. If you ask another woman out, you will be perceived as gay/queer/dyke. Be prepared for that. That's part of the deal. You can always explain that you are bi. But if you don't fel good about the most important person in the world - you- how will you be able to offer any friendship to another woman? or guy?
Go talk to someone ( gay-friendly ONLY) --a counselor, teacher, relative, etc. and see if you can figure out what you really feel. Life is hard- try to live it with some smiles. HUGS!!
2006-08-21 07:28:57 · answer #2 · answered by reme_1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get to know one or more of these girls as a person, rather than as somebody you'd like to go to bed with. Think with the straight half of your brain for a second. How do you feel about a guy who just scouts the chicks for a lay? That's what your message sounds like you want to do.
Get to know some girls as friends and let nature take its course when the right combination strikes.
2006-08-19 15:39:04 · answer #3 · answered by michael941260 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This isn't a question I can answer for you. This is something for you to answer for yourself.
If you want to ask them out, do so. If someone thinks your a 'dyke' because of that that's their issue, not yours.
Be comfortable with your own sexuality and don't worry what others think.
Do what you feel you want to do. That's the best answer I think I can give.
2006-08-19 12:12:49 · answer #4 · answered by Sean R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just emerse your self in music and darkness forget about getting involved with some one physically.
2006-08-19 13:24:06 · answer #5 · answered by catsclaw 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
anything's possible.. do what you want, you're still young.. i once had a GF back in the days (but found my BF after college).. you'll eventually find yourself! If it's what you want then go ahead.. don't take pills.. you don't need them..
2006-08-19 12:13:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it and experiment.I personally hope you end up liking guys....lol
2006-08-19 12:09:15 · answer #7 · answered by telis_gr1 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you know for a fact that she is bi, ask her out. what can it hurt?
2006-08-19 13:33:33 · answer #8 · answered by robyn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yuck..
Just stick with men.
2006-08-19 12:07:55 · answer #9 · answered by yournotalone 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I Think it wrong to do that
2006-08-19 12:11:20 · answer #10 · answered by girly girl 1 · 1⤊ 2⤋