my ex girldfriend left me because she said she needed to sort her self out. she still say she loves me and in time wants to get back with me but ive been waiting for her to return for nearly 3 months now and im starting to lose faith in whether she is getting back with me.
we still meet up and when we do its like nothing is wrong were laughing having fun and sometimes we kiss but its still the same "its too soon"
what should i do? or
what could i do to make her come back to me?
2006-08-19 04:45:30 · 13 answers · asked by andy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Put superglue on your lips!
2006-08-19 04:51:07 · answer #1 · answered by Captain Eyewash 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know the history of you as a couple, and I'm no expert either, but is she seeing anyone else? What huge life problem is it that she is trying to deal with, that won't be better dealt with, standing with you? Ask her those questions. Give it a time-frame, and realise that if she hasn't come back in a month from now, she isn't coming. But never try to force anothers' heart into anything, and DON'T try to issue an ultimatum, unless she is a sheep, ready to be herded into a pen. At your next meeting, stand her up. Let her see how it feels to be the one doing without you. Call her a few hours later, apologise that you forgot, that you've seen so little of her, you're not sure this is going anywhere, and that you a migraine right now, and just need to sleep.
If you are doing all the work in a relationship, it won't work. Let her approach you next.
2006-08-19 04:57:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh! you are a nice boy ;-), waiting for 3 months, if you really love her..I mean 'REAL' love, another 3 months wouldn't be too long, I have been waiting for almost 2 yrs with an odds, weired, guy who I never know where he live, phone no, what is he dose, I know him nothing and didn't see him for 9 months, he came to see me 1 hour, then go and the last time only 25 minutes and he has millions excuses for not able to be with me, he hurt me millions of times, etc....I still wait and wait, 'Time will tell you what to do' only you that's know should you wait or LET IT GO. :-) good luck x
2006-08-19 05:00:43 · answer #3 · answered by SERENE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't do anything to MAKE her come back to you. Maybe you should start considering that this relationship will not work out. And why would you want it to? Sounds like she isn't very invested in this at all, well maybe just at her covienance.
2006-08-19 04:53:16 · answer #4 · answered by Jewells 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry but it doesn't sound as if she'll come back to you and is just using you whenever she needs someone, or feels lonely. Don't let yourself be used like this - break all ties with her and find someone else.
2006-08-19 05:32:31 · answer #5 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to get a girl to come back to you, is to act like your not interested in her any more.
2006-08-19 04:52:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her that you don't want to be left hanging on forever, what if it is never the right time. Trust me, if she is the one then your paths will cross when it is the right time. get out there with your mates, meet new people. don't just sit there in hope. lifes to short.
2006-08-19 04:54:32 · answer #7 · answered by AidyA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
same thing happened to me. she was just using me when she was lonely. stoopid me kept on running back.
but if you feel like you want to wait for her the go for it. but dont wait around forever.
2006-08-19 04:51:48 · answer #8 · answered by Matt B&P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she's 'the one', then you need to woo her properly. don't listen to what she says - if you actually leave her alone, it means you're not desperate to be with her.
2006-08-19 04:53:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
look like u dont care....no puppy love!!!! or she wont give a f*ck about u!!!!!.......if u dont look interested, she will lick ur a**
2006-08-19 04:56:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋