i want to keep up my virginty but my boyfriend wants to have sex. What would I do? Suggetion please..........
2006-08-19 04:38:41 · 50 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
tell him to go play with himself 13 is to young to be having sex
2006-08-19 04:43:31 · answer #1 · answered by osirissk8rboy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You may not want to hear this, but you are way too young to be having sex. Breaking your virginity is a big deal, and if your boyfriend can't wait, then that lets you know that he really doesn't care about you. You have something very precious that a lot of people wish they still had. Trust me- it's worth holding on to. When you find the person that you want to be with for the rest of your life, you will know and that would be the right time. It takes years to build a relationship and 13 is not old enough to began having sex. Besides the emotional problems you could face, having sex too early also makes you more at risk for STD's that could lead to long term problems. I would advise you to wait it out and if he really loves you, he'll stand by your decision. If not, then he can hit the road.
2006-08-19 05:34:55 · answer #2 · answered by TRUST_ME 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You listen to yourself and tell him to get lost! It's really unfortunate that this is almost the only type of young man you'll find today, and most are all alike. You can thank the national plague of liberalism.
I think it would be a good thing if fathers warned young men against this the first time they came to take you out, and if you don't have a dad, then your mom could do the same thing!
You are correct! Stay the way you are until the day you're married!
2006-08-19 04:47:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummm, DON'T! How old is your "boyfriend"? You will have a very unhappy childhood if you were to get pregnant or get a disease. Ask any responsible adult, and they will give you the advice to stay away from that until your are old enough to make that decision on your own. Legally that's 18, but some people need more time. You need a job and your own family structure.
Bottom line, until you are ready and able to take care of a child. Stop thinking about sex.
2006-08-19 04:46:08 · answer #4 · answered by CJP 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
13 is a very young age .Sex comes with responsibility's and consequences and at your age you cant even begin to Imagine what is all about, so you are very smart on wanting to keep staying a virgin .As for your boyfriend how old is he? I'm sure he is older than you and trust me girl all he wants is sex ,if you have sex with him don't be surprised if he dumps you.Most important never give in on what your boyfriend wants you to do, you do what makes you feel comfortable,and always measure the consequences of your acts.Best wishes
2006-08-19 04:52:52 · answer #5 · answered by twogirls0306 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
13??!!! You not much older than a child you are just now able to call yourself a teenager! WAIT cause if you have sex there is a chance to get pregnant and the you would be a child tring to raise a child! the wait is well worth it so make the right choice!
2006-08-19 04:50:31 · answer #6 · answered by sweet_kaylie_on_the_way 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are 13 you are not an adult. When you get out of school and college, find a good man to marry then have sex.
Right now you are not responsible or mature enough to deal with adult things such as sex.
Sex leads to babies...that you cannot take care of financially at your age.
You are still a child...so therefore you do not need to having sex till you are an adult.
Sex also leads to STDs (sexually transmitted diseases) and AIDS/HIV.
Leave sex alone till you are an adult.
2006-08-19 04:46:06 · answer #7 · answered by Coast2CoastChat.com 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is so worth it to wait for the right time, with the right person, in the right place, in the right way.
Please don't deprive yourself of the fantasticness that is possible when you are truly ready with a grown and mature body and mind.
You must make it clear to him that his asking you for sex is not OK. His trying to convince you that it would be good is not OK.
Do not be in compromising positions with him or any male. This means don't be alone in a room. Don't tease and be seductive.
Be true to yourself!
2006-08-19 04:54:03 · answer #8 · answered by Tarpaulin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
13 is WAYYYYYYYYYYYY to young to be having sex.....Until you undertand everything there is to know about sex, std's, pregnancy, have a good job, a man who loves you and can provide for your baby (cause it will happen), then no no no.. Please dont let your boyfriend or any boy or man talk u into something u dont wanna do.. Having sex isnt cool.. 1 in 5 kids between 13-18 have an std....Please listen to that voice telling u its wrong...
2006-08-19 04:46:14 · answer #9 · answered by misstikal311 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend obviously does not respect you. Dump him. You are better than that. Guys will try to pressure you and tell you ANYTHING to get into your pants. You are doing the right thing. Dont doubt yourself. You obviously know right from wrong. Your parents would be so proud of you. Focus on school and your friends. Not some loser trying to get himself some tail. Good luck.
2006-08-19 04:49:30 · answer #10 · answered by dirkdiggler9999 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you have sex you are giving up one thing that you can NEVER get back. your purity. If this boyfriend of yours, even though you are crazy about him, can't wait find someone that can. It isn't looked good upon girls that have sex to soon. It won't make you cool and other guy's may try to test you then. This a very big responsibility.
2006-08-19 04:49:28 · answer #11 · answered by tab 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋