2006-08-19 04:29:30 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
U feel it in ur soul.. when u think of ur husband, does he do even stupid little things for u with out being asked, just things like around the house.. fix u something to drink because ur simply out of a drink and he's getting one himself? Does he come home with something for u from the store cause he noticed u were out or almost out.. or simply wanted to make sure u had some? You can usually tell in the way they look at u.. if a man makes alot of eye contact with u when he talks or when u talk to him, he's interested in ur thoughts or ur feelings, men that are tired of their women tend to avoid.. when he's asleep does he ever curl up to u , and say "i love you" even when he's asleep? Does he worry about upseting u or hurting ur feelings before doing something? When he makes love to u, is it cold.. as if u were just a hole in the wall or do u feel the emotion behind it? These are things to look for suttle little things will tell u.. if ur waiting on big "in ur face" signs ur in trouble cause most guys are the type to bring flowers or to do big scenes to express their love on a regular bases.. they do it in suttle little ways.. that unfortunately alot of girls over look and forget to appreciate..
2006-08-19 04:46:41 · answer #1 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look at the effort in the relationship that the two of you put in.
do you ever look at it from his perpective, Honestly how does your hubby know that you love him in real?
Can you answer that one, maybe since the two of you are together spend some time together and just talk. like going back to the basics, spend time do something that the both of you enjoy, does he do things you enjoy but he may not enjoy or do you two go your seperate ways to do things.
Good luck
Remember it takes more than just saying I love you, it takes showing the other person in our day to day actions that really shows how we feel.
2006-08-19 04:38:42 · answer #2 · answered by Not a Daddys Girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depend on what stage of the relationship, innitially he will have you on his mind so frequently and when the kids come in , some attention is divided between you an the kids, he misses you a little less but not dangerously. At this stage if he is still friendly, caring and surprises u with gifts then he is still in luv with u, but sometimes it really varies case to case. ask him to kiss u in public and see his immdeiate reaction!!
2006-08-19 04:41:11 · answer #3 · answered by vision t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know either. My husband and I separated a month ago and he says he loves me as much as when we met which was 22 yrs ago. Personally if he has to write notes about me to remember, how can he remember how he felt 22 yrs ago? I think its how you feel and respond to his actions/words etc. You have to be open to receive love and give it. Not mad.
2006-08-19 04:41:45 · answer #4 · answered by teulonbranchlibrary 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple. If he doesn't think he is good enough for you he loves you for real. If he did think he was good enough for you he would quit trying to impress you. Does he surprise you with gifts for no special occasion? Does he try to show you that he loves you?
2006-08-19 04:35:21 · answer #5 · answered by JR 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No sex for a year. If he is still around, well then, I think it's true love.
2006-08-19 04:37:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In his actions and words
2006-08-19 04:35:15 · answer #7 · answered by Stac 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's a good questions that i hope that someone would answer for me too....i'm questionin my future husband's love for me too
2006-08-19 04:34:46 · answer #8 · answered by autumn lover 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You feel it in your heart.
2006-08-19 04:34:08 · answer #9 · answered by Jewells 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BY HIS ACTIONS, WORDS, HIS EYES.
2006-08-19 04:48:24 · answer #10 · answered by nwnativeprincess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋