me and my man been together for almost a year now we was always together mostly everyday and now he doesn't really wonna be around me and fight and fuss everytime were together please tell me what's wrong does he have someone else or do we need space he says he love me and that there's noone else should i be worried. 2 months ago we lost a baby and now i';m pregnant again he wants me to keep the baby and he gets mad when i say i'm gonna get an abortion do he still care for me and he's just tired of us fighting and fussing all the time or should i move on because those are signs that he doesn't want me anymore.
2006-08-19 04:16:03 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
whatever happens just please don't kill the baby, it's not it's fault! If he didn't want you anymore would he still be there?
2006-08-19 15:40:04 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with your gut. Couples have arguments, and everyone needs a *little* space here and there... but if he's never wanting to be around you, or if he's picking fights, and you just have that heart sinking feeling that he may be involved with someone else, or just not into you anymore...then chances are that's what's going on. Don't ever second guess your instincts. And about the baby... its his child, doesn't mean he has to want to be with you, to want the baby. Or, he could just be telling you to keep the baby so you wont get suspicious about him straying from the relationship. My advice is to go with your gut though!!
2006-08-19 10:39:38 · answer #2 · answered by ashleykayc1980 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, He probably wants the baby not you....You said he doesnt want to be around anymore so chances are, he might be seeing someone else...Its time for you to move on, If you will keep the baby, make sure its your choice not his...But Im telling you, having a baby is a responsibility for the rest of your life....your life will never be the same again if you choose to be a mother. You have to devote your time, money and effort to ensure its well being...So, If you have to make a decision, make it now before its too late...
2006-08-19 04:31:47 · answer #3 · answered by bea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course he still loves you! He's willing to start a family with you! Do you know ohw hard it is for a guy to commit to that?! I do...cause i am one. We don't want a family until we can support and care for everyone in it. He fights and fusses because almost no guy will say this...it's a pride thing. Ask him directly why he wants the child, and tell him your reasons for wanting it or not wanting it.
2006-08-19 04:25:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off....Why stay pregnant by someone your not even sure of?
second....Keep the baby because you love it. Not to try and control him with.
third....If your having his kid's and he doesn't care enough to either stop having them or marry you and be a good husband, and FATHER!
Then...well... let's see here... yep, that tells me about all I need to know about him! How about you?!
2006-08-19 04:33:00 · answer #5 · answered by beebee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he still loves u because he doent want u to give the baby up and i just think he wants yall to stop fussin and fightin but dont worry about nothing though he still loves you
2006-08-19 04:23:26 · answer #6 · answered by Monii 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SEEMS LIKE U R NAGGING HIM. DONT BE UP UNDER EACHOTHER ALL THE TIME. HANGOUT WITH FRIENDS FROM TIME TO TIME. OR HE COULD BE UPSET ABOUT THE LOSS OF THE FIRST CHILD.
2006-08-19 04:29:33 · answer #7 · answered by sex-c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
check his office he must be having some problems
2006-08-19 10:14:53 · answer #8 · answered by prernabasu81 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋