My new girlfriend is sweet but she seems a little strange. This week she told me she is bored and wants to know if she can dress me up as a girl and take me to a party this weekend. She thinks it would be fun to do my makeup, put a blouse, mini skirt, heels. nylons, panty and bra on me. She wants her and her friends to come over and help her. They are all going to beauty school. Should I let them have fun and do this to be, or should I say no and hit the road? I really am straight and I would feel odd being the only guy wearing all this girly stuff at party.
2006-08-19 03:30:20 · 19 answers · asked by Sissy Jeff 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Makeup
Sounds like it would be fun and educational for them. Aslong as they don't humiliate you(unless you enjoy that short of thing) then you should do it. If the only factor of it being odd is that you are the only guy, then have them invite a male friend as well =P. Doing it won't damage your self image in others eyes, just know that your girlfriend will enjoy it and have a good time! You must have quite a nice body and personality if she thinks you'd make a pretty hot female and so do her friends =). So enjoy what you have baby and show if off! You'll get all the attention at the party too!
2006-08-19 03:50:51 · answer #1 · answered by Lu 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She is NOT a lesbian. She probably just has a fetish. (YES. Contrary to popular belief, women can find odd things arousing as well.) Who knows? She might just think it would be a fun thing to do. I don't think it's worth breaking up with her over but, you shouldn't let her make you do anything that makes you feel uncomfortable. However, if it bothers you so much that you can't feel at ease around her, then I'd suggest you just end the relationship here before it gets anymore troublesome than it already has.
2006-08-19 03:37:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
She sounds like she just wants to have fun and be different at party. I did this to my bf one time and we had a blast. He received a lot of attention from everyone. Of course I am good with makeup and I shaved his legs too. I also made him wear a french maids outfit with very high heels. So go ahead and let them do this to you. I bet when they are finished you will look hot and be the hit of the party!
2006-08-19 03:42:21 · answer #3 · answered by linda 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Well, that really depends on the kind of person you are. If you have a very huge sense of humour, don't see what would be wrong in a little fun like that. But if not, that would be a mess, a humilliation and I am sure your girlfriend will understand that.
2006-08-19 03:44:10 · answer #4 · answered by Sam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say it is time to set some boundaries in your relationship. Boundaries are very important as it establishes what you will and will not do, how you feel about things and your belief system. It would seem based on what you have said that your girlfriend is attempting to pull you into a specific lifestyle under the guise of "lets play dress-up". That is what her girlfriends are for. If she needs to entertained she can rent a movie, go to the theatre, go dancing etcetera.
You need to be mindful of being seduced and co-opted into something that is not part of your belief system. You also need to assess how much of yourself you are willing to give away and sacrifice to the expense of your dignity and masculinity all for the sake of entertaining someone or garnering their love. When all is said and done you must be able to live with who you are, the decisions you have made and the things you have allowed others to do to you in order for you to feel accepted and loved.
It sounds like your girlfriend has an agenda. That agenda has little to do with you and everything to do with her and satisfying her needs whether or not you are trampled in the process is of little consequence as she seeks to change who you are by slowing transforming you into a cross dressing male with certain particularities. This maybe ok if that is who you are and that is what you want however if its not, I dare say you better get a stepping out of that relationship because this is only the beginning. Little by little she will introduce you to things that may seem harmless at the time. In the end it will all add up to a transformation into a life and lifestyle you did not willingly choose. If it feels wrong to you, then it is, it matters little what others think, its about what is going on inside of you. If you say no to her special requests and she humiliates you and make fun of you for your choice then you have some decisions to make. You must decide, "do i want to be in a relationship, where my boundaries are not respected, who I am is rejected in preference of something else". Do I want to be with someone whom does not respect my way and me, because they do not agree with hers?
In any relationship the two people involve do not have to agree on everything however they must respect each other’s decision right or wrong. There is nothing wrong with loving someone or wanting to be loved however be mindful that, it is not wise to love another to the detriment of yourself. There must be balance and compromises. However compromises does not mean negating who your are as a person and what you feel is or is not right for you.
2006-08-19 04:06:20 · answer #5 · answered by Virtuous 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Did you ask her why? That is probablly who you should be asking first. If I were sitting at home and allowing her to do this it would be fine but going out to a PARTY.......... HELL NO and I am a girl and I dont agree with that. I think you should do a background check and see if she is crazy first then I would have a long talk with her and let her know how I really feel.
2006-08-19 03:45:54 · answer #6 · answered by Deja J 1 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Hit the road Jack!
2006-08-19 03:36:16 · answer #7 · answered by blueyes2001 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
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2017-03-02 09:50:51 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, I love the skirt!!! People tell me I've nice lower limbs but I still don't wear shorts
2017-03-02 08:57:30 · answer #9 · answered by Cleo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really like long dresses. My bf loves the short ones. So my wardrobe is crammed w/ 1/2 and 1/2.
2017-01-31 11:26:28 · answer #10 · answered by Stacie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋