Which is the best way to forget the man of your heart after he stopped on you? How to kill this temptation? He doesnot love me..but has another GF.Still I love him.
2006-08-19 03:28:05 · 19 answers · asked by Saheli 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I believe that, if u love someone direct from heart not for any other reason, that means if you r in true love, then oneday u will reach the goal. U will get your love.
Try to think this also. U both were in love. If he is able 2 live without u, if he doesn't bother your sentiment, emotion then why will u wait for him. Not necessary u had 2 fall in love once again. Try 2 think about your carrer. Involve yourself with your family, frnds, do that u interested in. Listen 2 good music. Try 2 avoid thinking of him.
Follow the above u will be successful
2006-08-20 00:18:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being in love is such a wonderful experience! If love is real it shouldn't be based on any conditions that are unrealistic. Perhaps you didn't live up to the expections of your man or vice versa.
You could love him forever if your love is not based on any conditions. It would be a glorious and victorious love. We can't force other to love us but we can accept that others are free to do what they want and we to do what we want. Love is born out of freedom.
Yes, we do feel sad and broken when others don't live up to our expectations.Perhaps the psychological and mental stress and damage caused is irrepairable but we have our free will to get us out of any and every difficulty.
Do you want to forget him because he doesn't love you or because you want to stop loving him?
Take your life in your hands and do what is best at this time. Have a goal in mind and direct all your energies to that goal, whether it is studies, work etc. You are bound to succeed.
Love freely and live freely. you'll win. YOu can win!!!
2006-08-19 11:36:29 · answer #2 · answered by pussuboy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time honey! I was in a relationship with my ex for 4 years and he was my first real love. I knew that he didn't care for me like I did him but I done everything I could to make him happy. Our relationship ended very badly and to this day he hates me for nothing. I just set myself down as much as it hurt and told myself that I was better than that. I deserve someone who loves me and respects me. There are other guy's out there. I am married now with 2 kids and I don't ever think about my ex. I see him all the time but now that I have someone that loves me like I do them I can go on. Get back out there and date some more. You will find someone and if you stay hung up on this guy it may hurt your chances with someone else that could be great for you.
2006-08-19 10:39:09 · answer #3 · answered by tab 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The more you try to forget the more you remember him.i suggest you not to make any attempt to forget him.give your heart sometime to heal as you know time is the healer.as the days pass his thoughts will vanish slowly and one fine day you will be surprised to know that you almost forgot him.but dont have any fresh dreams about him,that will kinda kill.let the thoughts stay for a while after all thats the beauty of love,enjoy every moment of his thoughts coz sooner or later you will forget them naturally.
2006-08-19 10:39:04 · answer #4 · answered by Sheeth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi friend, good to here that u came out with ur problem and u want to come out of this. this itself is a positive sign that u will change. Never feel bad for him, coz he was not meant to have such a beautiful angel in her life. wait for the right person and right time to come, n that person will make you special.. and this time dont take a decision by yourself rather life be an evident to find that dream guy for u. i know its very easy saying to forget abt the guy and difficult to come across, but life will take u to all the ups and downs.. so lave it by thinking that perhaps he was not ur cup of tea.
2006-08-22 01:52:03 · answer #5 · answered by Lallithambigai U 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time is the greatest healer. You will get over it after a certain period. In the meantime make new friends. Meet lots of people. Keep yourself engaged in productive work. After some time this will only remain a distant memory. And cease to affect you.
2006-08-19 15:24:47 · answer #6 · answered by Modest 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do things and move on so that you are not thinking about him. You are wasting time holding on to someone that does not want to be with you. Is he leading you to believe that you could have some sort of future if that relationship doesn't work out? I don't understand why women hold on to guys when the writing is on the wall and they see they have no desire to be with them. I ask that with all sincerety.
2006-08-19 10:35:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Focus on yourself and learn how to make yourself happy and complete without anyone in your life. You will get over him and make a better GF for the next man in your life.
2006-08-19 10:34:40 · answer #8 · answered by 75160 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Memories are like ripples in water , they die down with time or merge with the bigger one.So wait for the next love that will flush old memories.
2006-08-19 10:39:06 · answer #9 · answered by chdman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't forget him just remember the good times shared it will get better over time. but if you love him don't try and forget just enjoy the memories
2006-08-19 10:34:25 · answer #10 · answered by nobody's perfect ..01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋