i really really love my bf and i know he feels the same way about me, i am thinking of getting his name tatooed on my arm, is it worth it??
2006-08-19 03:21:23 · 39 answers · asked by logsy_babe 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I think NOT, don't ever get a mans name tattooed on your body, buy a bracelet or something with his name on it. Bad choice, girlie, dont do it.
2006-08-19 03:26:05 · answer #1 · answered by Monie D 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No no no!!! It's a very sweet idea but there are a heap of other ways of showing you love him. I know because I did much the same thing once. I was with someone who I really loved at the time, he had loads of tattoos and I got one exactly the same as one of his, a bull that showed his star-sign Taurus, tattooed on my stomach (in a rather provocotive place!). He was blown away when he saw it and couldn't believe I'd done it. It was such a thrill at the time but it wasn't long after that I just went off him, not for any reason other than I just moved on, no hard feelings but we split up and I haven't seen him since. Now it's a bit embarrassing when a new boyfriend asks why I have a bull, some people assume I'm a Taurus but I'm not and I have to say it's just something a friend and I did together when we were young and nieve (or however you spell it), which is true. I'm only 26 now but do sort of wish I'd had something else done. I don't regret the tattoo, just the symbolism behind it. It's a fun thing to do, one of those things I wanted to do in life, and will forever be a symbol of my wild and carefree days, it just annoys me that the man I did it for sometimes pops in my head when I'm in bed with someone I now know I love much more. See what I mean? Kinda annoying. Just get a tattoo of something that means a lot to you personally and tell your boyfriend you dedicate it to him - just DON'T get his name done - there's no explaining that to anyone else!!!
Can't let my man see this message, he still doesn't know, lol!
2006-08-19 03:33:42 · answer #2 · answered by Katie D 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i really don't think u should do it no, if something does happen to u 2 then u will have all this pain and hurt come up ever time u look at ur arm, as other people have said on here, if u get a lil symbol the means something to and that represents him then its better. i mean u have to also think what if im the future u do break up for what ever reason, hows ur new bf going to feel about u having a constant reminder about him on ur arm. i really don't think its worth it but then all this is just our opinion. its ur choice after all and ur the 1 that will make the final decision. i just hope u do think about it
2006-08-19 03:35:14 · answer #3 · answered by thedevilinsidemademedoit 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. everyone i know but one person that has someone Love tatooed on them the relationship has not last. I something was to happen down the road that you two dont work out would you want it still there. And if you was to find some else how would they feel.
2006-08-19 07:14:52 · answer #4 · answered by ANGEL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, how about a piercing, and maybe you could have his initials on the ring you have put in? If they don't offer this service, it should exist...
I mean, tatoos are permanent- too permanent in a way, whatever happens in your love, it will still be there... still, if you want to show your devotion, who's to stop you? If someone I was going out with did that with my name, I think I'd be flatter, nay, overcome with emotion, but secretly scared for the future, maybe a little guilty. Probably it's a bad move- listen to the girl who did it twice up there, that should be enough warning...
2006-08-19 03:38:13 · answer #5 · answered by Buzzard 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you were certain of this then you would never have asked the question. I think that it's a lovely gesture of commitment but I think that you should wait a little longer until you know for yourself for certain. But I've been with my boyfriend for over three years now and I have his name tattooed onto a tattoo I had before I met him...just below my knicker-line. It's just for him. He also has my name tattooed onto his back. As we both didn't want to marry until I finished University and we wanted to have a place of our own, we thought it was the best sign of commitment for the time being.
I certainly don't regret it and I love that he loves it.
2006-08-19 03:32:42 · answer #6 · answered by Munchy Mooneo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definately NOT.i am smothered, have been since naughty teens.
I was lucky I met a good woman.As you get older the tattoo will become a hinderence to you.I am also lucky that i have seen a lot of life and am a very confident person.Tattoos are not worth the trouble,and they are not cheap anymore.
2006-08-22 08:11:05 · answer #7 · answered by Martintheveg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it's not worth it. You never know what could happen. You might break-up soon after the tattoo is put on, and it's a hard and painful process to get it taken off. But if you do get married that's a great thing, but you should wait until you are married to put someones name permanently on your skin.
2006-08-19 03:29:19 · answer #8 · answered by ssweet_09 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i will possibly on no account get a tattoo no longer to point the call of somebody. If we wreck up and that i'm getting a clean bf he;s probable going to offload me for having yet another guy's call on my physique! additionally, i think tattoos are incorrect b/c your physique is a temple and you're no longer meant to destroy it with markings and pointless piercings/
2016-09-29 10:49:11 · answer #9 · answered by milak 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no no no no and if a tatoo parlor did this then they are not very smart. think about life 10 years down the road..... your with a new man and he has to stare at an ex boyfriends name. dont do it.
2006-08-19 03:30:44 · answer #10 · answered by thepainter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way ive just looked at what other questions you have asked and how u 2 always argue if this is a way of keeping him it wont work and if he walks ull be left with the heartache of his name being right in front of u all the time
2006-08-19 05:31:36 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋