what can i do if?

Question

my cousin inlaws husband has touched me inapropitly and i told her about him but we caint do anything cause our family is retarded and his mom thinks hes a perfect angel i fear for his kids but me and my inlaw think he just likes older girls what can i do with out making a scean

Answer 1

why do you care about making a 'scene' call the police on this loser

Answer 2

If you are a minor, call the police and press charges. Yes it will cause a big problem in your family. Buy no one saying anything it give him the OK to do it again. Even retarded people know that certain behavior is inappropriate. Or he could do it to your children when you have children. My cousins brother raped her son while baby sitting. Instead of going to the police she went to her parents who said he could never do anything like that. It turns out that he was raped as a young boy by another cousin. . She should have gone to the police and pressed charges. Skip the parents as they will always be in denial. Do not be afraid of a scene. That will blow over in years to come. But him touching people in appropriately will only continue. It like the Church cover up of priest touching young children inappropriately.

Answer 3

Why would you care about making a scene. Chances are if he has touched you inappropriately then you are probably not the only one he has done this to. Break the cycle, I would say something, besides how would you feel if you found out he touched one of his kids and you could have possibly prevented it, with just exposing him in the first place.

Answer 4

So many young girls in your position are put there by retarded men who think they can get away with anything... MAKE A SCENE BABE... his next target could be a small child... MAKE A SCENE... Tell everyone... Tell someone... DO SOMETHING... Even if you are capable of forgetting about it and letting it go, the next victim might be worse off... These kinds of things lead down a very negative path... Do something NOW... Or the next person he touches.... It might ruin their life. So Please tell everyone... hes not so perfect, hes touchy, tell them something so they watch out for him and protect their own families.

Answer 5

there is no way not to make a scene. if you are positively sure he touched you inappropriately, then you need to go tell the police. it will ruin his life and maybe yours, but you might be saving his kids and insuring he doesn't do it again. this is a very serious accusation. if your family won't listen, help, or believe, then you must tell someone who will.

Answer 6

Sweetie, tell him to stop if that does not work weather you want to make a scene or not go to the cops and file a complaint and make sure that this guy does not hurt the incensed children, you are their voice stand up for them not only yourself no one deserves what he is doing no one.

Answer 7

stay away from him.. and if he does touch u again make a huge scene right there infront of god and everyone.. and u have either ur man, or a brother beat the crap out of him for laying a hand on u..

Answer 8

Go to a local authority figure - a clergyman, a policeman (especially!), a principal, a teacher, a counselor

Answer 9

Tell him to stop touching you. Tell other family members whats going on.

Answer 10

tell your mom that if somethign isnt done u wil report this to social services in ur area and all hell will break lose it is wrong.. and yea it will get worse .. wake up or move away