we have been together 22 years and have 4 children three grown one 11 still at home
2006-08-19 02:08:33 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
is not unusual..just life...routine ..maybe you guys need some excitement...take her somewhere and make her feel important again...women need attention and to feel desired by their significant one ...go somewhere without the kids for a week end and enjoy yourselves! a romantic getaway....sandals couples!...with that you guys will have time for yourselves and love and romance....
2006-08-19 03:20:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stress and responsibility kills the moment. You got kids still...
The old add of don't do as I do. You set the moral tone for the 11 year old. I never knew if my parents did it... Some of my peers say their parents yelled and screamed and kept them up all night. That is kind of over after years and being reasonable.
I remember the tense first times dates of being caught by parents.
Add the alone times were the best...Sometimes you feel like a nut and some times you don't. All that All the time is hard on a Woman at times. Maybe you need to get away from home. Get one of your older children to give you a vacation and see if you can bring the spark back. Play role play as if you are meeting for the first time wear wigs and change your names in a bar or club and discover something new about each other as you have grown together but you got that same old same old crackers and cheese stuff...Unstuff. Im not married but I wish I was and being with a spouse I hear from others how they take each other for granted they will always be there and always the same. I feel both partners must be in agreement of role play and not judge mental for forcing the other to do something that they are not cool with. I hope this helps...Recently I heard the man should think KSutra Think of his wife as 32 different women and that way he will not be tempted to stray. I asked my boyfriend what would you do if you walked in and saw 50 of me all in love with you, He said what would you do if the 1 of you saw 100 of me feeling the same way...
2006-08-19 09:23:01 · answer #2 · answered by Nina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds average to me. Passion wanes after years together. You have to find ways to bring it back. Think about when you first met and take it from there. Send the 11yr old off for a night with friends. Good luck.
2006-08-19 09:12:54 · answer #3 · answered by PariahMaterial 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Passion wears off with age, tyr something new, in the back seat of the car, of in the garden, spice it up a little, put on that sexy black dress, bake him his fav luight some candles place the finding game ... go on....
2006-08-19 09:24:22 · answer #4 · answered by haboba13 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Screw him. Get a divorce. Get yourself into the gym, tighten up those abs, and wear a slinky dress out with your girl pals. Pick up some unsuspecting gentlemen, and give him the time of his life!
2006-08-19 09:13:26 · answer #5 · answered by ndvsne1 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Demand more, that is not normal, once a week at least is more like it- arouse her and get more- life is short.
2006-08-19 09:19:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's normal
you migh want to find a lover though.
life is short
2006-08-19 09:12:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
once a month, you got me beat...
2006-08-19 09:13:21 · answer #8 · answered by incharge333 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is she Bi sexual?
2006-08-19 09:13:48 · answer #9 · answered by diddy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋