2006-08-19 02:05:11 · 25 answers · asked by Cherrypie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
No, seven years is a long time to be with someone you should be proud of that and not give in on your relationship. Talk to him , find out his reasons and why he feels this way. Find ways with him where you can turn the situation around and make it enjoyable for him. Good luck.
2006-08-19 02:11:20 · answer #1 · answered by TB 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if uv been going out together 7 years then you both obviously have a lot of feelings for each other. Why dont you both sit down together. Tell him that its bothering you and you want to know whats up. Remember be nice about it though and comforting... if the answer you get you dont like i.e he's seeing someone else or doesnt feel the same about you anymore then leave him. it may not be either of these however and that he's having a hard time a home / work. Find out whats wrong first and take it from there. Dont do something you might later regret. best of luck!!! x x x
2006-08-19 09:20:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tricky one this, What you need to do is find the reason why he is not interested in sex anymore. Has he lost his sex drive or is he maybe getting it from some place else. Do you have any kids? Do you love him? No sex cannot be a reason to split with a long term partner. But you do have needs and if he is not producing the goods then you do have a reason just have to think it through. Good luck! And i am impressed you have not strayed!
2006-08-19 09:14:26 · answer #3 · answered by Coley61 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just because you're boyfriend isn't interested in sex that would mean you're gonna leave him.. there are lots of reasons why your boyfriend is acting that way.. he may be having some problems or being stressed at work.. remember guys arent like gurls when you would get to know the exact reason why they're acting as such.. this is a broad question you're asking. please be specific or elaborate further as to why you have come to this kind of question..
if you mind me asking, how many times do you have sex?? like how often??
we aren't machines.. that you can do operate the way you want it to.. but if there are some minor probs w/ it, surely you will get to check as to why its doing that way...
similar to machines, there could be some problems or obstacles that hindered as to why you're boyfriend is like that...
its best to talk it out.. or if your boyfriend won't tell you, then you have to give him some space and time till you figure it out the root cause of the problem..
remember, relationship is all give and take..Ã
before you decide things... think it over and talk it out..
2006-08-19 09:56:54 · answer #4 · answered by yen yen 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what you treasure the most in your relationship. Maybe first try to work through this period before giving up on him, maybe find new ways to tickle his interest more. And you could always try talking to find out what is going on in his head and why he isnt up for sex anymore.
2006-08-19 09:11:41 · answer #5 · answered by string_bean_jean13 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Unless he is ill or stressed out he is probably having sex with someone else. Sorry. Find a man who loves you and wants you in every way a man and a woman can love one another. You are too young to give up kissing. Every woman is.
2006-08-19 10:32:28 · answer #6 · answered by Pan 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes. If he hasn't committed to you and isn't interested in even taking what you are offering for free, then he is only still around out of laziness. Boot his butt and get back to trying to make a life for yourself.
2006-08-19 09:12:30 · answer #7 · answered by Grendle 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My God...You know what..my bf asked me once..if one day he's impotent, will i still be with him or leave for another guy..i don't know how to answer him and i merely told him i wont leave him to make him happy..
Deep down inside, i'm thinking..will i..Then i finally found a solution to it..Ask yourself..how much you love him and how much he love you..if you both love each other very much..then try to do something new to boost your sex life..perhaps it's been kind of too routine for your sex life?Try a dildo or stimulator if he really don't want to have sex.
2006-08-19 09:13:46 · answer #8 · answered by barelyahrie 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Try talking to him to find out the reason why. Maybe it is that he is going through a rough time in some part of his life.
2006-08-19 09:18:15 · answer #9 · answered by Me 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why not talk to him to find out what is going on? It may be medical, or someone new. Don't throw a relationship away until you know the facts.
2006-08-19 09:22:03 · answer #10 · answered by spiritwalker 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋