i am sorry guys & gals?

Question

actually no body is understanding me. pussywillow is saying i am liar. iam not a lier. dear pussywillow just add a fullstop between the word "married and last night" in my question. dears my wife is an eastern girl. she is too much shy. i know she loves me from her reactions. many a times she kisses me on face and said "i love you so much" sometimes when i hug her she also hug me. when i am going to sleep she always said donot sleep so early talk with me please.But my dears when i started to go for sex then i really got confused with her reactions. although when i kiss her on neck and ears and breasts she moans and only repeat my name. she also hug me at that stage. every time when i touched her ***** at that time it shows wetness. but the main thing is that she doesnt speak any word during the whole process and after i finish when i ask her what r ur reactions she shy. what i do my friends. i want to know whether she is satisfied or not. but she didnt answer

Answer 1

She definitely does sound shy but if you talk to her, eventually she will open up. Some people just have a problem talking about sex - even when it's their husband or wife. Maybe ask her something more specific like "Is there something I can do that you would really like?" You may already be doing it but that gives her the opportunity to talk about it.

Answer 2

Some people are just shy at first and by Eastern girl do you mean Eastern US or over seas. Because Eastern girls are no more shy than Western. Its the individual. Maybe she had a sneaky uncle or something to that effect and is to afraid to speak about sex. Or some people will always be prudes no matter how much sex they have because it might of been taboo to speak about it when they were growing up. Just be greatful she lets you have it and continue to talk with her about it and eventually she will open up but don't push to hard, unless of course its with the rod. Good luck.

Answer 3

Hey, man what is your problem, cause she is enjoying it, she certainly has a smile, what is wrong with you men, why do you have to ask at the end how was it, it seems like you are scoring yourself, she loves dearly can't you see, if a bloke asked me if i was satisfied i would just look at him and i certainly would not answer that, it is love making not sex, if she is not satisfied you will certainly get to know it. Just enjoy your pleasures and stop asking too many questions you will spoil things, just chill

Answer 4

Well, I think it is up to you to coax it out of her and participate more. When you are making love to her, ask her if she's enjoying what you are doing. Reassure her by telling her that you're enjoying doing it to her, and that may be you'd like her to do something to you. Maybe guide her hand to where you'd like it to be. Don't be forceful, be gentle, and as she learns to trust you, that you will not ridicule her for the things she says (maybe she is ashamed to say it out loud), then gradually she will open up to you like a flower. Communication between both parties is essential in a healthy sex life.

Also, read the Kama Sutra texts. They give great guidance on the acts of love :-)

Good luck, my friend :-)

Answer 5

She would be mortified if she knew you were talking about that here I bet.
If shes responding that is all you need to know, now give the girl a break and stop asking her if shes satisfied already.
If shes not she'll go buy a vibrator.

Answer 6

If you can't formulate a coherent question don't pick on pussywillow for mis-understanding you. It's not her fault you can't write in a known language.

Answer 7

Okay, now that I understand a little better, I think she was very excited but very shy at the same time. I think she was satisfied for now but you have to give her time to get over her shyness.

Answer 8

look bud i never said u were a liar, i asked were u confussed, or a liar, big difference. try writing ur questions a bit clearer if u want people to understand u. if ur marraige is in that much trouble go see a marriage councellor or get a divorce. even consider the fact maybe ur wife doesnt fancy u

Answer 9

if she was not satisfied she woud not say i love u
she is shy so respect her and be a gud husband
it will take time 2 open

Answer 10

i think u do satisfy her the thing she's not that open about sex..maybe when she gets used to it, she'll be able to express herself more//and u can talk about it more :)