i am newly married last night i only did foreplay with my wife like kissing on neck and ear and sucking breasts. after about 20 minutes i stopped and my wife said that she is feeling like she has no power in her arms and body and she is feeling cold and she just slept besides me as she is totally exausted. did these are the symptoms of orgasm. i mean she ejaculate or had orgasm. As i am newely married and i had no sex experience before so i want to know this.
2006-08-19 01:07:11 · 38 answers · asked by mnapak 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It is likely that you are too young to be married.
2006-08-19 01:11:38 · answer #1 · answered by JeffE 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree, give her time. I think she is afraid of "loosing control" or going too wild, it's obviously a confidence thing. She sounds afraid of her own body. But give her time. Does she orgasm already with the fingers?. If not, its still time for some more exploration. The blindfold idea is stupid for HER, it will make her feel even more "exposed" and out of control. Shy people are afraid of OTHERS watching. So why don't YOU blindfold?. That way you are going to give her privacy to do (for instance) whatever faces she wants to make, and it will be more private. Another way, less pressured, is to just go under the sheets so you don't look at her reactions. Try proposing this to her when the time is right, howeverer DO NOT PRESSURE HER. It will come with time. Good luck!
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2016-04-14 01:54:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Sir
It could be an orgasm it could be not, but you will notice in the future when you do a foreplay with ur wife that she will enjoy it more B4 sex and she also will enjoy making love with more and more
Best of luck
♥
2006-08-19 01:14:53 · answer #3 · answered by Clark794 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Foreplay is very common amongst newly weds. Take it easy and all
will work out.
2006-08-19 01:38:40 · answer #4 · answered by Ricky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because it was your wedding day - she was exhausted and probably a little nervous and embarrassed. She probably needs you to hold and stroke her in a non-sexual way until she overcomes her shyness. Treat her like a precious child and give her nice kisses. If she turns away, spend time making her laugh and finding out all about her. Sharing is important, so is holding hands and accepting her as she is. I am sure she will become a wonderful wife!
2006-08-19 03:25:22 · answer #5 · answered by Pan 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you are newly married, for goodness sake you are already moaning, you still have tonight, tomorrow night and so on, she was tired, no she did not have an orgainsm, you will learn sooner or later, just respect her, she must have felt weak that is why she was cold, and you were her shining armour to keep her warm, i just want to say hope you two will have a blissful marriage, we say in our language Shadee Mubarak.
2006-08-19 06:23:27 · answer #6 · answered by Ruksana P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's probably tired. Give it a bit of time. If nothing happens then you need to discuss it with ur new wife
2006-08-19 01:16:07 · answer #7 · answered by Nicky 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to give her a good seeing to its tradition on your wedding night to have a good night of love making, you need to get it sorted man.
ps if she had an orgasm over foreplay then your in for a treat when you have sex with her she is going to explode man
2006-08-20 01:47:20 · answer #8 · answered by chucky egg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Were her shoulders cold, cos it sounds like she was giving you the cold shoulder...mind you I'd not be on here the first day of married life, why don't you go and ask your new wife if she is okay.
2006-08-19 01:11:10 · answer #9 · answered by Gavin T 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she was nervous. Everyone expect that the wedding night you have the best sex of your life. Maybe she was stressed out about it, she didn't want to disappoint you. Instead of relaxing it was all in the back of her mind to please you, that she actually may have froze. Just be patient with her. When you try again, start by touching her gently, caress her back, stomach or even just play with her hair. Kiss her softly on her back, stomach or neck. Wait for her to make next move. Best of luck!
2006-08-19 01:20:24 · answer #10 · answered by Feetjie009 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
is she ok now? Try again tonight I don't see what your problem is my hubby and i didn't have sex until 2 nights after our wedding night. No we wasn't virgins. we were so knackered good luck with your marriage hopefully you'll get what you are looking for.
2006-08-19 02:10:42 · answer #11 · answered by jules 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋