boyfriend's ex-wife living in his house.
Even they have different room.
But, I still worry what's the ugly thing gonna happen someday.
no body knows they might get back together, when some mood is up to confuse the emotions.
I am so piss off thinking of that! (><")
He said just help her like a good friend when she can't move back with her parents or his brother.
His credit is broke ,so the house's name is under the ex's name.
the point is I know she is not give up my boyfriend, so, I don't like her!
I hate this xxx situation,I even want her out of this earth...it's been 6 month already...it drive me crazy every day & night !
I think I'll get some mental sickness by this **** situation.
I am so angry ,that I can't stop thinking about that I may wanna kill her ........the evil inside of me is almost jumping out cause her.
the angel of me is so helpless to fightI.....
Is any one has some great idea to help me get her out of my bf's house?
tell me plz,tks!
2006-08-19 00:50:20 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
actually ,my boy friend pay the house, only the paper work is under her name.
I live in different country now,
there are just two of them & a dog in my bf's house.
2006-08-19 01:10:44 · update #1
Bad thoughts, bad thoughts...You need to separate this relationship is not going to work...If the house is in ex's name she does not have to move and she can kick him out. I wouldn't even be involved with someone like this...Look honestly it has already made you sick....
2006-08-19 01:20:38 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell him that 6 months is too long and you are not happy with the current situation - don't make it a you or her (because I'd always drop the person making that kind of demand by default), but just let him know it needs to change quick.
6 months!? I can see helping someone out, but that's too long. And the house is in the ex-wife's name? He needs to sell the house, move into an apartment and fix his credit. And that has nothing to do with you, that is all about him acting like a responsible adult.
2006-08-19 07:58:32 · answer #2 · answered by frank m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to say this, but if your boyfriend still has his ex-wife living in the house, you might want to reexamine his value as a boyfriend. This is from the point of view of someone who has had both girlfriends and an ex-wife, and there is NO WAY I could have tolerated both in the same house. Unless I had ideas that were perhaps not being honorable to one or another or both of the ladies involved.
2006-08-19 07:58:20 · answer #3 · answered by Ben 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A wife will olweys be a wife,do u tink he's dat numb dat he don't know how u will feel abt dat,or maybe he also like d situation hu knows he's still inlove with his wife n only u claim her as ex wife..if he reli loves u he will respect u from the start,i min he will respect ur feeling n will find other to help his " ex wife ".I tink its tym for u to call it off,its bin a long tym for u sacrificing n understanding him,a bf or gf who will have privacy even for 1 hour will take the chance of having *** if they are in d rite age how much more an ex husband n wife?????wat do u tink?????
2006-08-19 09:06:01 · answer #4 · answered by kimy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cannot do that forcibly. Its your BF who is gonna decide that she will be staying there or not. You make him clear that the situation is critical & you are not able to cope this after ... days. Tell him that helping her at your love's cost will not be tolerated further. If he loves you he has to respect your feelings. Try to find a place where she can have temporary accomodation till she finds a solution.
Talk to him in sober way rather than entering into hot argument.
2006-08-19 08:01:23 · answer #5 · answered by arnie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Excuse me, but why are you blaming HER?
Your boyfriend is the culprit here!
He is the enabler of all this chaos created. The house is HERS. Don't blame her for having feelings for him-it shouldn't matter. You are insecure because you are afraid that he may act on her feelings for him, which, by the way doesn't matter if he is living with her or not. It means there is something void between the two of you. You need to resolve your issues between the two of YOU and leaver HER OUT of this.
2006-08-19 08:08:45 · answer #6 · answered by evonne i 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi,
From what you said if the house is in HER name it sounds as if she is allowing HIM to stay there.
Why doesn't he move out and you teo get a place togehter.
If the house is in her name anyway, it just moght be your best bet.
I wish you the best of luck. But don't let her know it bothers you or she'll play it up all the more!
2006-08-19 08:05:05 · answer #7 · answered by Eyez 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The most important thing is your happiness. Are you happy? It's ultimatum time. Tell the slug that either she goes or you go. Be prepared to get moving.
2006-08-19 07:55:18 · answer #8 · answered by canucklehead1951 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do you even consider him your boyfriend when he is living with his ex-wife? wise up and don't be so desperate, there are a lot of fish in the sea. easy come, easy go.
2006-08-19 08:32:21 · answer #9 · answered by solotrovo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do hope you have enough sense to just leave it alone and find others. It is not up to you to get her out. Just forget ab out him and move on.
2006-08-19 08:10:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋