My girlfriend wanted me to take a certain day off from work to attend a party with her, but I couldn't because I had already taken a couple of days off last week. She went to the party last night, I called her, but she didn't answer, I text her, and she still didn't anwser. She then text me back around 2:30-3:00 am, saying " I miss you, I want you, ect.." She did not even mention the party she went to, I had to ask her about the party. Wouldn't she have said something about the party???? I was like " did you go to the party?? all she said was " yes"... I asked her who she went to the party with, she did not respond to me..... either she was really tired and fell asleep, or she didn't know what to tell me, so she said nothing... these questions were in a time frame of 10 minutes. should I be concered????
2006-08-19 00:48:18 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
I think you should either talk it out or worry!
2006-08-19 00:53:12 · answer #1 · answered by msdudash@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way you will know is to have a talk. If you feel you are being jerked around and she is dishonest, then speak your mind clearly. If she accuses you of being paranoid, then that means she is being on the defensive, and perhaps for a reason that she wants to hide from you. Don't blow up and get mad at her, be reasonable and calm, but ask the questions that are on your mind. Don't accuse her of fooling around, but ask a few general questions and then if you are not satisfied, you could escalate things a bit.
Regardless, she is going to feel that you do not trust her, and if she cheated, then she will likely get mad easily. If she did nothing wrong, then she should be able to prove it CALMLY.
Do you know anybody else who was at the party? Not that I'm suggesting that you call them (because that would get back to her and she would accuse you of being neurotic and being a control freak). Good luck. And stand your ground!
2006-08-19 01:52:23 · answer #2 · answered by SB 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like to me, you might be obsessing!! Give the girl some space!! If trust is an issue, start by looking at your own insecurity's. Your attitude will be a common denominator of what's going on inside!!
2006-08-19 01:03:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes. I was at that party and was one of the guys pulling a train on your girl
2006-08-19 00:53:19 · answer #4 · answered by seth 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try sniffing her intimate areas when she gets in, or go through her purse to see if she had more money coming back, than what she had when she left.
2006-08-19 01:07:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like she had fun last night.....with someone else!!!! if she didnt, she would be open to talking about it, but she is trying to hide something from you.
2006-08-19 00:56:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes...there is a good chance that she blew a guy in the bathroom....yes it happens.... she felt guilty and horny thus the miss u and want u part....good luck
2006-08-19 00:54:56 · answer #7 · answered by niteshipper 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES!!!! I would be. She is hiding something for sure. You are screwed man. Or should I say SHE was screwed.
2006-08-19 00:54:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would talk it out with her and let her know your concerns.
2006-08-23 00:10:34 · answer #9 · answered by spiritcavegrl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ADAM, AFRAID YOUR EVE HAS TAKEN A BITE OUT OF THE APPLE..............................
SAY BYE BYE TO HER................ SOONER THE BETTER
2006-08-19 00:56:42 · answer #10 · answered by SNAIL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋