boyfriend's ex-wife living in his house.
Even they have different room.
But, I still worry what's the ugly thing gonna happen someday.
no body knows they might get back together, when some mood is up to confuse the emotions.
I am so piss off thinking of that! (><")
He said just help her like a good friend when she can't move back with her parents or his brother.
His credit is broke ,so the house's name is under the ex's name.
the point is I know she is not give up my boyfriend, so, I don't like her!
I hate this **** situation,I even want her out of this earth...it's been 6 month already...it drive me crazy every day & night !
I think I'll get some mental sickness by this **** situation.
I am so angry ,that I can't stop thinking about that I may wanna kill her ........the evil inside of me is almost jumping out cause her.
the angel of me is so helpless to fightI.....
Is any one has some great idea to help me get her out of my bf's house?
tell me plz.
thank u so much!!!
2006-08-19 00:45:41 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
actually ,my boy friend pay the house, only the paper work is under her name.
2006-08-19 00:57:05 · update #1
I live in different country now,
there are just two of them & a dog in my bf's house.
2006-08-19 01:05:30 · update #2
Get a new boyfriend.
2006-08-19 00:49:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are no doubt in an ugly situation.But do not do anything rash as it will go against you. Even your bf may become hurt and things might get in reverse gear.She is living because the house is in her name.The property matter should be settled coolly. Take your bf into confidence. Your endurance may pay off. You can also give vent to your feelings to parents if they are around.But wait for the favorable moment when things will turn in your favor. If it does not then find out another mate.
2006-08-19 00:56:24 · answer #2 · answered by nkmy83@yahoo.com 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you talked to your boyfriend about the hate thing you have for his ex-wife? You should tell him that you don't feel comfortable with them living under the same roof. But at this point you and your boyfriend can't kick her out of the house or tell her to move cause the house is under her name. The house is hers according to law. So why don't you ask your boyfriend to move out somewhere else and you can live with him.
2006-08-19 00:57:46 · answer #3 · answered by QQ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, I think your boyfriend has the decision to make. Either live with the ex-wife or be in a relationship with you. If you let the status qua keep going, I don't see a happy ending in store.
2006-08-19 00:52:41 · answer #4 · answered by tannedknight45 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are still married in God's eyes, and I think they realize that, given their present living arrangement. And I think you realize that it is evil to be so angry about the situation. Bottom line: You need to move on and let them get their life as a couple back together.
2006-08-19 00:54:03 · answer #5 · answered by songkaila 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
seems as if you don't realize that if you have been gone 6 months,and he lives with her,and you are in another country, then he and she ARE back together.
Do you have any friends that live near them?
I bet most people think they are together
Move on with your life.Find someone for you.Near you.
It is not worth obsessing over it.Boyfriends come and go and when they do things like live with an ex,it is better for them to go
2006-08-19 02:11:41 · answer #6 · answered by angie devine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Easy as pie. Just do something extremely bad and then blame everything on her. I know it's bad but it's worth a try. Or u can just take ur BF out of ur relationship.
2006-08-19 00:55:16 · answer #7 · answered by ErC 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's under her name therefore it's her house. Why are u hating on her? It's not her fault your boyfriend chooses to stay in it. Instead of directing your anger towards her, be angry at him instead. Besides, what's stopping him from moving in with you?
2006-08-19 01:09:29 · answer #8 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to get hold of your self first thing. next is he really worth all that you are feeling. you should pray for guidance and strength to get rid of the devil that's torturing you and some help, so you can make a better decision. you should be happy.
Good luck and hope you find some peace, it wouldn't hurt.
2006-08-19 01:17:51 · answer #9 · answered by RAINBOW 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's her house and his decision to live with her or not. Move on and get a life of your own.
2006-08-19 00:58:06 · answer #10 · answered by 55 and trying 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come on find a new man.
There is nothing to do with both of them.
Ur boyfriend should have thought about it himself (if he cares abt U little).
Incase he is in Ur place what would he do.
If U can do then discuss it with him again.....and if he doesnt pay heed to ur worry.................JUST LEAVE HIM and find another, a single one.
2006-08-19 00:56:04 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋