I got an ovel birthmark in the middle of my belly.. 1 inch above my belly button.. its dark brown and ugly! i got a nice body (im not bragging) and im quite cheeky.. sometimes when im kissing my bf he would try to take my top off i wouldnt mind if i didnt have the birthmark but im afraid incase he sees it and he would loose interest in me i my self hate it!.. so everytime i would have to make up excuses so he wouldnt take my top off.. but if the lights were off and the room was dark i wouldnt mind either.. but we cant always do things in the dark now could we?? please help! are there any ways to hide my birthmark without surgery? i have no cash at the moment and im only 16 :( plz plz plz help.. serious answeres please
2006-08-18 23:47:51 · 11 answers · asked by pOiSoNoUs^^ChErRy 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Skin & Body
hey sweetie..
Birth-Marks are a part of who you are,
Your boyfriend loves you!! and your birthmark is part of you,
Having a brithmark doesn't make you a freak, or a disease,
It makes your more individual.. You never know he could find your birthmark cute, Next time he tries to pull your top up, just tell him why it bother's you and let him see it, As you said you have a great bod!! So why not let him fully experience that, tell him your self conscious, and that you were scared of what he would think of you, chances are he is just going to tell you that it doesn't change who you are to him, Don't try and hide it, If you resort to hiding it now, you will go through your whole life ashamed of something that makes your more beautiful and unique, There is nothing that could really take it away, But having confidence will take your fear away of being ashamed of it, If you are really concerned see your doc, and he may be able to give you creams to fade it,
Just be your self.. x3
2006-08-18 23:55:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First and foremost you should not be embarrased about your birth mark. And your boyfriend should not base his love for you on a birthmark!
He should love you for who you are. And don't hide it. How long do you think you can hide this? The truth will come out eventually.
Tell him about it. But first, tell him that what you are going to say is very important and he must promise not to laugh. Then just tell him. Personally, i don't think anyone would think a birth mark is ugly. It is a rare thing and i think anyone who has it is lucky.
2006-08-19 06:56:41 · answer #2 · answered by shopaholic 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are who you are! You are probably one of the lucky ones who has birthmarks in areas which you can hide with your clothes or where people dont normally see. Think of people who haf it on their faces or visible areas? Maybe you can conceal it with some makeup..eg..Dermablend and wait till you are financially capable then opt for a surgery...It is a test whether your bf would truly love you.
2006-08-19 07:19:42 · answer #3 · answered by Kiki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
use this makeup called DERMABLEND--it was developed to hide scars and birthmarks, it will not come off when you swim or kiss off, or rub off on clothing--the trick is once you put it on, you put the finishing powder on top and it sets it in place until you remove it.
It is available many places in the world, I am assuming you are in the UK, because we don't use the word cheeky in the US (but even if you are in Australia or somewhere else you can find it online)
2006-08-19 06:53:50 · answer #4 · answered by dlgrl=me 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Live with it and wonder if the birth mark is as bugged by you as you by it! Obviously not! I've been with women who had way uglier marks on their bodies and it didn't spoil anything. Love has these invisible qualities that really matter, no matter what else could distract from that.
2006-08-19 06:54:01 · answer #5 · answered by groovusy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, if your boyfriend dumped you over something as insignificant as a birthmark, he's a dip****. However, I've always found wanting to change imperfections to be quite shallow. You should be proud to be who you are.
2006-08-19 06:55:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i have a scar on my breast, and i was told it was sexy.....i would suggest two things. 1) talk to your boyfriend, explain how you feel about this mark. if he`s really worth your time and attention, he will understand. 2) im fairly sure you can buy special cosmetics that are designed to disguise scars and birthmarks. good luck!
2006-08-19 06:56:01 · answer #7 · answered by kat 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have to live with your body, don't be shy about it. I know its hard, I have a scar on my stomach and used to feel the same way, but my husband actually thinks its cute! Odds are your bf will just see it as one of the special things about you
2006-08-19 06:52:51 · answer #8 · answered by welsh_witch_sally 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Embrace it. It's a part of you. If a guy would seriously get turned off if he saw it, is that the kind of guy you really want to be with? Someone who judges you over a small area of skin pigmentation? Be accepting.
2006-08-19 06:54:04 · answer #9 · answered by kwikane7 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he really loves you, he won't mind it at all. He'll probably laugh when you tell him how worried you are right now.
You are not your birth mark!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-08-19 07:09:25 · answer #10 · answered by Me in Canada eh 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋