1) Being attracted to guys rather than girls.
2) Flirting with hot guys.
3) Wanting to be with a guy rather than a girl.
By the way, I am NOT gay!
;-)
2006-08-18 23:43:16 · 70 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
let's face it fellow, you're a rough ranger, a fudgepacker, a homo, a f a g g o t! you may as well come prancing out of the closet and admit it---doesn't sound like you're doing that good a job denying it!
and don't come whining on the board later saying that you're queer and it wasn't your choice. no one is forcing you to take up sword-swallowing, tinkerbell.
2006-08-23 18:09:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 4⤋
Liam, man, what you need right now is to get away from everything and everyone. Then do some sole searching. But I have to tell you that every gay man goes through the same process that you're going through right now. I was engaged to married to a girl in South Carolina )talk about your worst case scenario), but I had enough since to call it off before I ruined her life. I found myself in deep depression not know why I was depressed. But the one day that I actually had had enough of beating myself up for being attracted to men was the day I stopped taking the depression medicine, and got on with what is actually a very successful life. But I can tell you that if I had that time back I would have accepted myself earlier, and would have been a success much earlier! Hope this helps man....Peace.
2006-08-26 15:05:12 · answer #2 · answered by Carolina Boy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're attracted to guys rather than girls.
You're Flirting with hot guys.
You're wanting to be with a guy rather than a girl.
And you say By the way, you're NOT gay!
Ok, now let me ask you 3 questions.
How many straight guys are:
(1) Attracted to guys rather than girls?
(2) Flirts with hot guys?
(3) Wants to be with a guy rather than a girl?
When you answer all 3 of the above questions, then you'll have your answer!
2006-08-19 10:44:13 · answer #3 · answered by MAC4Me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whether you're gay, bi or straight depends on the nature of your attractions. If you are attracted to both guys and girls then you're probably bisexual. If you're only attracted to guys then you're homosexual.
The only way you'll stop being attracted to guys is if you suddenly discover that you like women and then stop feeling attracted to guys - its also possible that you could like women and still feel attracted to guys (making you bisexual).
It is possible that things can change throughout your lifetime. For example, I was "gay" until I was 16, and then had my first crush on a female. Since then, I've considered myself bisexual. Recently, I'm starting to wonder whether I really do like guys, but then that could just be some strange phase!
2006-08-19 10:37:29 · answer #4 · answered by nemesis 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is probably the prostate orgasm, in males it can be mind-bending and totally different than a normal orgasm. You can have that kind of sex with a hot chick, try toys or strap on stuff. If she is a freak then she'll be down to try it. BEST OF BOTH WORLDS, take turns. the only way to find out is to try it. too bad its socially acceptable for girls to be bi but not guys. We gotta still keep it in the closet to avoid the backlash. PS all the older men know about the prostate orgasm, its just the younger guys that have a complex (usually)
2006-08-25 18:26:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is it here is how you do it.
1) come to terms with yourself, follow your instincts and worry less about the gender you are attracted to and more about the quality of the person you are attracted to.
2) Flirt with whom ever you enjoy flirting with.
3) Refer back to solution 1.
Don't worry about being gay or not be yourself, you'll be a lot happier when you quit worrying about labels and stereotypes and just live, let you instincts be your guide.
2006-08-23 18:52:46 · answer #6 · answered by spider 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By stopping these things, you would be denying yourself, your "true" self. Why would you do that? You will be choosing to be something other than what you feel, and that is hiding behind someone elses ideas of life and creation. Be yourself, and be happy. If you are attracted to someone, allow your feelings to flow. It doesn't matter who it is. Humans can surely find something about anyone that is "attractive". Live your life for yourself, and not the government, religion, your parents, or anyone here who may have high and mighty opinions.
2006-08-25 19:32:58 · answer #7 · answered by Michael 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Something is not properly balanced in your life. If i may say so you should take this matter to your God and pray in the privacy of your home or church . Im not sure how old you are but you seem young, focus on education and career goals then maybe you can deal with your sexual issues later. Remember God.
2006-08-24 10:26:24 · answer #8 · answered by beem3gone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
relax.
You should never attempt to be something/someone you are not.
It sounds as if you are in denial, hun. I was like that for a long while- because i was embarrased about things that i liked to do with women. There is no harm in trying it out to satisfy any curiousity that you may have. just be careful and choose to live your life in a full way. goodluck
2006-08-19 06:25:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you nuts?Accept that you're gay.1st,stay away or find a way not to see them.2nd,don't ever talk with guys thats handsome and cute.3rd,throw away the girl stuff in the closet.4th,pray to God,take a confession and do something good or charitable.If temptations insists,its either follow my sugestions or just be yourself and do your past routine.
2006-08-25 21:58:06 · answer #10 · answered by heidi_springle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From the comments you have made, you sound gay. Think you are just in denial. There is nothing wrong with being gay, you are what you are and people won't think any different of you. x
2006-08-18 23:51:33 · answer #11 · answered by Minnie M 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋