my boyfriend and I broke up after a fight, we have talked a lil and he sounds like he regrets it. he never said it but that's how he is. we r supposed to exchange our stuff today and I really am afraid this is the end. we agreed to be friends but the idea of him with someone else sickens me. I love him so much and see myself growing old with him, he is under a lot of stress and so am I ( I have cancer he's leaving for basic and is fighting for custody of his daughter). I found out he still is there for me, even tho I am not being clingy. I want him back but I am scared, I think I may have ruined our only chance. please help.
2006-08-18 23:02:36 · 9 answers · asked by sweetangel20_04 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You've heard the saying if you love someone let them go, and if they return they are yours forever.
2006-08-18 23:07:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him plainly how you feel be completely honest with him, but remember guys are NOT emotional by nature they act. If you want him back tell him asap, do not waste time ack know do over think go with your gut. If he feel the same about you then he will take you back. Say your sorry for the fight even if you where right remember guy do not think they same as you and deal with stress in difference ways the you do. relationships are not easy they take harder work and must work at it each day. You must choose to be to getter.
2006-08-19 06:13:15 · answer #2 · answered by RLC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do occasionally contact him (via emails, phone calls) to keep the relationship alive. Then find a time to meet him for dinner.
Then try to make up during the dinner ...get close to him to hint you like to go back to the old times...
2006-08-19 06:09:29 · answer #3 · answered by Phantom of the Opera 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its quite possible he feels exactly the same way. I'd say take exactly what you put down and take that to him. If you're emotional about each other I guess that means you love each other!
2006-08-19 06:10:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how you feel when you two go to do the exchange. Its really up to him to decide what to do. Its between the two of you so work it out with one another. Its really your only option.
-NmD!
2006-08-19 06:11:57 · answer #5 · answered by NoMaD! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him that you still love him ,, and send him this poem..
I knew I loved you before I met you
I think I dreamed you into life
I knew I loved you before I met you
I have been waiting all my life
hazem02@yahoo.com
http://www.thestarlitecafe.com/poems/92/poem_765499.html
please read more poems and leave me your comment ..
yours
hazem
2006-08-19 06:10:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
SO, Tell him how you feel and go from there. Don't expect him to know what is going on in your head..COMMUNICATION- it help a relationship.
2006-08-19 06:09:23 · answer #7 · answered by moosebird40 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you love him get him back
2006-08-19 06:12:03 · answer #8 · answered by yummycookie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is It Real Love..............
2006-08-19 06:19:12 · answer #9 · answered by Mani* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋