I am 32 years old and going to be married inshallah in six months but I am very much scared to think about intercourse.Does it hurt or how one feels during intercourse?
How in the small opening of vagina something could get inserted.It makes me sick.I am scared from intercourse.
2006-08-18 21:41:04 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
You should not be scared of it .Take take it easy.You will start enjoying it soon.
2006-08-18 21:52:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, congratulations on waiting for your husband before having sex. That shows great courage, self-control and determination.
The first few times it might be a little painful, but it's not agonising, and you'll quickly get used to it. Try to relax, it's not that bad. Your husband should be gentle with you, and if you try to keep relaxed and do lots of kissing before hand, you should find insertion easy and the pain will subside quickly.
If you're entering a marriage, sex will be part of your life. There is no point worrying about it, as time goes on you and your husbad will grow closer through sex and learn to have a happy and active sex life.
2006-08-19 00:17:55 · answer #2 · answered by Pebbles 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it hurts but its not that bad. It doesn't continue hurting though. You may bleed a little bit (popping your cherry). It's really not as big of a deal as people make it out to be. But tell your guy to be gentle and patient with you. The more nervous you are the more you will tighten your muscles and make it harder for him to get in, which in turn might make you hurt more. You have to relax. These are the moments that are overrated so don't put so much weight on it.
Definitely, masturbate before you have to do this w/ your guy since your feeling so sick about it. It won't hurt as much either if you do.
2006-08-18 22:04:37 · answer #3 · answered by LetMeBe 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It will hurt at first. for me, it was until about my third time. But if your partner is understanding, he will try to make it more comfortable for you by giving more foreplay etc. Just be open minded and enjoy. By the way, congratulations on waiting for your husband. I wish I had done the same. I was 24, I should have waited!!!
2006-08-18 22:00:18 · answer #4 · answered by Lady Mandeville 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u should be it is terrible dont have kids.i mean its not like we are supposed to reproduce or anything. Dont be scared seriously its no biggie after your first few tries . It will be lots of fun
2006-08-18 21:49:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey....i just wanted to say i admire your decision to WAIT....I'm 17 and i have decided to wait...you really are an encouragement! Congrats on your upcoming "ever after" !!!! Sorry....i know that has nothing to do with your question....
2006-08-18 22:12:39 · answer #6 · answered by Kiss 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dear don't worry about it Cox its best exercise but then u ill start loving it
2006-08-19 00:46:41 · answer #7 · answered by rajiv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You look like my twin sister.
2006-08-18 21:48:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try it, no records of women died because of first sexual intercourse
2006-08-19 01:21:28 · answer #9 · answered by OrgasmO 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be afraid. You will have so much fun!!
2006-08-19 01:49:32 · answer #10 · answered by Texas Cowboy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋