my friend's planning to celebrate her bday but she's changed and postponed the date for 5 or 6 times! the party's next wk and i told her that i wont be able to come bcoz i've already got school plans. she told me that it's her party & i should be there for her, and i told her i cant bcoz she's been changing dates that even my other scheds are jumbled...
i know i sounded rude to her, i think she deserves it...
am i a bad friend or is it just a kama for her? should i to her party & forget my school wok for her sake?
i'm too confused here...
2006-08-18 21:16:48 · 4 answers · asked by DruNkStripPeR 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
it's a school project that i've got to work on ovenight in the campus. it's not just me who's complaining because of her 'unorganized' plan but almost all of us...
2006-08-18 21:30:33 · update #1
It doesn't sound rude if she keeps changing the date. You have certain things that you need to do. School is one of those. A party even for your best friend comes futher down that list. If she doesn't understand then really your friend is no friend at all
2006-08-18 21:26:33 · answer #1 · answered by tweetyb_76 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u think she had valid reasons to postpone her party e'time then attend this party even if u have to reschedule ur other engagements. Thats what a friend is supposed to do for a friend. But if you think there was not serious reasons for changing dates then better go ahead with your other schedules. And ya, this wont be a rude treatment in this case.
2006-08-19 04:53:43 · answer #2 · answered by eagertoknow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
attend her party but then u should give also ur studies some time.. u can re arrange ur schedule \..
2006-08-19 04:24:27 · answer #3 · answered by _-rei-_ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is the one being rude not you
2006-08-19 04:33:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋