her boyfriend of six yrs. has cheated on her several times, calls her his c*m rag then begs for forgiveness. Her dumbass always goes back to him. I'm tired of giving her advice that she never listens to. So now I don't wanna hear about her problems anymore cuz it makes me sick. I think she desreves all the heartache and the pain cuz she puts up with it...am I being a b*tch towards her?
2006-08-18 20:27:55 · 10 answers · asked by MiMi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If she doesn't listen to your advice anyways, don't listen to her whining.
2006-08-18 20:52:12 · answer #1 · answered by not_prfikt 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you r being a little *****
but she does not need the hard love she is already getting it from that *** hole.
You need to take her out and show her that there is more to life then being c+m on.
It might take her some time to come around but show her you are there for her and you will always will be
But when she calls with all her (I cannot put up it this **** ) cut her off and offer to go out for the night
Who knows she just might find someone while your out.
2006-08-18 20:39:50 · answer #2 · answered by yomom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes and no...She is your sister and you need to be there for her. But being there for her and listening to the same broken record over and over are different. Just tell her "look I love you, your my sister, I don't like the situation your in or how he treats you, But you come to me and tell me your problems and ask my advice but you haven't taken any of it and are still in the same mess. So I don't want to hear about your relationship any longer." When she gets to her breaking point with him she take care of buss. You can't make someone do it till they are ready. Good Luck!
2006-08-18 20:34:52 · answer #3 · answered by wiazardofoz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The reason she goes back is because she think she loves him and he loves her. When you feel that way it is really hard to part. It is like losing someone you are best friends with since they probably hang out often. Maybe if you started to encourage her to hang out with other people more than she does her boyfriend she will soon be able to leave the jerk. Good luck to her and you
2006-08-18 20:33:59 · answer #4 · answered by coolchick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea, but so what. You're tired of the drama. You keep listening to her stuff you won't be able to get a good nights rest.
2006-08-18 20:34:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
JUST CONTINUE TO BE THERE FOR HER BECAUSE SHE IS YOUR SISTER. SHE NEEDS YOU TO BE THERE FOR HER WHEN SHE IS BEING STUPID. AND EVEN THOUGH SHE NEVER TAKES YOUR ADVISE JUST CONTINUE TO GIVE IT TO HER, BECAUSE MAYBE ONE DAY SHE WILL LISTEN. I UNDERSTAND COMPLETELY. I HAVE A SISTER JUST LIKE YOURS. AND SHE NEVER LISTENS, BUT SHE NEEDS SOMEONE THERE FOR HER. SHE IS JUST HAVING A BAD TIME RIGHT NOW AND SHE NEEDS YOUR LOVE AND SUPPORT TO HELP HER THROUGH. TRY NOT TO BE JUDGMENTAL. IN THE END SHE WILL TELL YOU THAT YOU WERE RIGHT, BUT YOU HAVE TO BE PATIENT WITH HER.
2006-08-18 20:36:48 · answer #6 · answered by Kristy C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you tried and she failed to listen! You can only do so much dear. you are not the one dating him, but I do know that aint no boy gonna talk to me like that......his c*m rag...are you serious? Stupid.....some girls are stupid not in love!
2006-08-18 20:32:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No she sounds like she is a glutton for punishment
2006-08-18 20:31:19 · answer #8 · answered by sunshine1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She does have issues... Maybe you can get her on to a daytime talk show?
2006-08-18 20:32:21 · answer #9 · answered by halosfan2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no.some persons are not only suffer themselves foolishly but also sink us with their problems
2006-08-18 20:33:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋