well, my bf and i broke up just recently, w/o having talked about the problem.. then now, he is calling me again, just like before, informing me his where abouts and everything.... i don't want to assume things about us, but i don't wanna get hurt again.... what shall i do?
2006-08-18 20:17:37 · 6 answers · asked by kish-kish 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Either he doesn't think the relationship is entirely over, or he wants to rekindle that flame. You need to decide what you want and sit him down and talk to him about it. Either you still want to keep the relationship going, or you end it now and forever. A lot of times, people tend to just want to try to have a break and get back together in a week or two. The problem with this is that it doesn't really work out like this in life. You need to decide what is right for you, and only you. Don't go back to him because he says he likes you again, because if he did, he wouldn't have put you through this in the first place. Decide what feels right and go with it, and never waver in your decision. I hope that this helps you out, but please do not make our decision based on this, decide with your own heart.
2006-08-18 20:32:28 · answer #1 · answered by sasquatchman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You broke up. You can still hold a friendship (which is what he appears to be seeking), but before you do, you need to discuss why you broke up in the first place.
Tell him you want to discuss it, so you can move on and let the relationship move on. If he says yes, do it. If he says no then tell him to stop calling so you can move on.
2006-08-19 03:24:13 · answer #2 · answered by advancedmaster 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just reevaluate why the two of you broke up. Sometimes we fight over things that can easily be resolved. Maybe the time apart has done the two you some good. Talk to him, see how he feels.
2006-08-19 03:22:57 · answer #3 · answered by Timber 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you just ask him. Be upfront and honest. The worst that could happen is he's not into you that way and he just wants to be friends. But at least you would know and would stop wondering. Peace.
2006-08-19 03:25:44 · answer #4 · answered by kitty_kats06 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen listen listen be open minded dear
2006-08-19 03:22:29 · answer #5 · answered by geez 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him chance ,it seems that he can't forget you.
2006-08-19 03:21:16 · answer #6 · answered by Edmund l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋