This guy and I have been friends for a year meet on-line. We became good friends and recently we decided to sleep together. It was so hot and he said it was even better then he imagined it to be. I don't want to ruin anything so wondering how I can tell this early in the game if he is interested in me or just the sex now that we finally slept together? What are normal male behaviors and what are just plain bad signs that it was only a one night fling?
2006-08-18 20:16:04 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
well, if it wasnt good for you, you should stop it now. if you think it has a chance, then go for it
2006-08-18 21:26:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You really should have discussed this BEFORE the sex.
At this point you just need to be straight up and ask him where he's at with the whole situation. If you wait until he's ready to talk about, you might be waiting forever.
If he hasn't said anything yet then it was probably just a sex thing.
2006-08-27 00:46:55 · answer #2 · answered by Power To The People 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
meeting online in itself is risky....and then you rush things by zzzz with this person.....what is wrong in your brain!!!
If you have to ask the ?????? about being a 1 night stand...then you know the answer you are seeking....
People rush into the sexual aspects of a relationship to quickly. They don't really learn to be friends first ....and I truly mean BE FRIENDS. Enjoying each others company with out the pressure of thinking about SEX. Society puts to much emphasis on SEX....and DOING it.....Once the SEX happens....then there is people like you asking the ????? of was this a fling.....
What is the rush....why be someone's BOOTY call.....Life is to short to subject yourself to HIV/AIDs, HEP C, Stds, etc.....Value what you have and keep your pants on!!!
2006-08-24 06:24:21 · answer #3 · answered by aunt_beeaa 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you've said that you've known him for a year right? Well since the sexual encounter have you guys picked up right where you left off with your friendship? if so, then everything is good, if he seems to be a little "too busy" for you now then i would worry that things have changed in a bad way.
2006-08-27 00:28:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he asks personal questions about your sister or best friend, that would be a bad sign.
2006-08-27 00:02:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he asks you questions about you and your family and your interests than that is a sign that it is more than sex.Bu if he is not interested in you, then you will know it.
2006-08-27 01:03:27 · answer #6 · answered by parker01 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what you want...but you shouldn't give your body away so soon..that is when you do just used...as for signs well girl, you gave it up already so if that is all he wants you just set yourself up..to continue to be used...
2006-08-27 00:49:14 · answer #7 · answered by qdrama1956 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL IF HE DOES NOT TRY TO CALL EXCEPT ONCE EVERY COUPLE DAYS. THEN IT WAS JUST A FLING, BUT IF YA ARE STILL TALKING THEN MAYBE IT IS SOMETHING. TRY AND SEE WHAT HAPPENS.
2006-08-26 19:39:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drop the casual sex immediately honey. you'll get burned
2006-08-27 03:16:16 · answer #9 · answered by ebemdpa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him first off, don't hold off and wait and see what happens, if you want more out of it, than tell him.
2006-08-26 17:08:57 · answer #10 · answered by missbehave252002 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋