what do i do?

Question

IM PREGNANT AND IM ONLY 13!!! HOW DO I EXPLAIN THIS TO EVERYONE?? PLEASE HELP!!

i dont know who the father is .. its one of 5 people i think .. and i for sure want to keep it!

Answer 1

That's just what happens to 13 year olds that have sex. You should have understood the consequences before you spread your legs. Tell your parents now and get to a doctor so you can learn how to take care of your body and that baby. Consider adoption too. There are way too many decent people in this world that can't have babies and little kids go around poppin' 'em out all over. Give them something to be happy about and regain your childhood. You don't have the life experience to be a mother yet. It takes a very mature person to nurture and teach a child. Not someone who isn't out of junior high.

Answer 2

Well there is only one way to explain and that is telling the truth to your parents. They might be furious at first but why wouldn't they be. Be responsible and let them know, if you were old enough to do it then be mature and come out and say it. Next you don't know who the baby daddy is?! That's terrible, so just wait until the baby is born and have a test done with those 5 guys you think it could be, that's if they're willing to take responsibility of you and the child. Well good luck, I wish you the best, because I might be in the same boat...well that is of being preg. and me having to tell my parents. Good Luck!!!

Answer 3

I don't understand how at 13 you don't know who the father of your unborn child is.Did you type the right number.It can't possibly be one of five.I don't want to come across as nasty,it's just that l have a daughter you age.I am really in disbelief.Firstly you have no choice but to tell your parents.If you feel uncomfortable telling both parents at once,tell the one you feel more comfortable with first.I understand that it's not going to be easy for you,but this is something you have to do sooner rather than later.I hope that every thing works out well for you.Take care of your self.

Answer 4

When the baby finally born. Get a DNA test. And your 13? and have sex with 5 people? What's wrong with you? You can't get a job at 13 and also your parents will send whoever you have sex to jail for years and years. Better advice, don't do abortion but adoption.

Answer 5

Well first tell ur mom and u can get an abortion or u can keep the baby i wish u the best of luck :( contact me 4 support if u need ppl 2 talk w/

Answer 6

You should tell your parents dear!but before that ask them "what if ill get pregnant,will you get mad?'if they will answer yes then try it again some other time but dont be afraid as long as you have the father of that fetus!

Answer 7

Sooner the better, babe - you can't hide it. Don't put it off. Tell them and be done with it. The may even respect your prompt admission. You have to sooner or later - why wait? Fear is the only reason to put it off. Fear sux, just do it now. There will be no "right time' to wait for. Now is the time. Good luck!

Answer 8

talk to your parents and get them to go a see a doctor with you you are far too young to raise a baby as you are a child yourself so your parents are you guardians and you have to co-operate with them for your well-being and health stop sleeping around tell the docotr who the guys were to make sure you did not get something else also like HIV from them

Answer 9

I don't understand why 13 y.o think they are mature enough to have sex. If you were grown up enough to do the deed and get pregnant you are grown up enough to sit down with your parents and tell them

Answer 10

Your post is giving me morning sickness, and I'm not pregnant. I hope you're a troll and this isn't for real.