the sex is great.
2006-08-18 19:21:41 · 13 answers · asked by moapearl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
sex might be great, but the heartache is horrendous!
2006-08-18 19:25:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It may seem exciting but in the end you know you can never be together and if you are not looking for a real commitment then married men are okay for you. Well of course you have "divorce" but you can't expect them to leave their real family (wife and kids) for the mistress. I think some single women are attracted to married men because they are responsible and know what a woman needs from a man (because he's already been there much longer compared to a single carefree guy). And about the sex part of your relationship with him - I have been told more than once by my uncle why they (married me) sometimes have affairs. He said imagine eating hamburger for 5 or 10 years, 3 times a day. Soon you'll be bored with hamburger and will want to eat spaghetti or nuggets. When you eat something new, you'll be so excited with it. We'll I know that is a terrible reason but logically, it fits.
2006-08-19 02:56:48 · answer #2 · answered by jeni_love_12 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most married men are starved 4 sex. THERE wife dont give them sex .OR they are bored with the sex life. BAD thing about a married man is he probably wont leave his wife. AND he is ONLY using you 4 sex.GOOd luck
2006-08-19 02:28:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's because you see him as your pillar of security,idealism and freedom of not having to worry of him being partly your responsibility since you aren't binded by matrimony.
Sex by itself is just part of the package and if your wish is to have a grip of you and make a life of your own,it will need a lot of effort from you to stand up and put that all behind you.Easy said but hard to do I know but your dependency, addiction, intoxication to this guy won't just disappear overnight.Grab that "will" when you feel ready and your right mind &senses will find those ways & means to detach.
You deserve to have a man to call your own and not just part-time or least borrowed from someone else's wife & dad.
One day at a time.
good luck.
2006-08-19 02:41:42 · answer #4 · answered by cascadingrainbows 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
women are more attracted to married guys because they know another women has already found him to be acceptable as a life long partner. women view single men as if there is something wrong with them since no other woman wants them either.
2006-08-19 02:28:36 · answer #5 · answered by rob 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, there's no future there, trust me. Go for someone who's not married, the sex will be even better.
2006-08-19 02:25:43 · answer #6 · answered by CindyLou 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cuz they are taken so it's safe you don't have to be faithful but you get them when you want...it's between you and him only and it's a secret...and its mysterious...but it also sucks, I stupidly went out with a married man for 3 years, I will never do that again I was young and dumb
2006-08-19 02:27:41 · answer #7 · answered by lilmiss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
geez, only married men are great lovers??...purleeze gf, u can do better... single guys are just as good if not better, forbidden pleasures can make you happy for only so long, know that from experience... move on... you'll be happier... trust me...
2006-08-19 03:07:13 · answer #8 · answered by darthmawler 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because you cant really have them, they are already married, and ppl want what they cant have, except that it hurts everyone in the long run
2006-08-19 02:27:40 · answer #9 · answered by Dawn C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because your IQ is very low that's why you need to ask.
People like you are pathetic.
2006-08-19 02:58:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋