Do you agree that in most marriages sex life falls in to a routine affair?

Question

Well this question is addressed to married people, If yes, then how do they think they resolove it
& what do they really miss in their sexual life?

Answer 1

Yes unfortunately it happens all the time, people tend to forget what made them fall in love in the first place, they become so "comfortable" with the other that they fall into a dull routine.. To resolve it, u have to work at it, both partners, trying to bring back the newness and giddiness of the relationship , bring back the romance and the passion.. id have to say they miss the romance , passion, and the excitement the most that most people feel when they first get together..

Answer 2

Well, it can get kind of routine I suppose, but that doesn't mean it isn't still Absolutely Great and a huge source of comfort emotionally. A healthy sex life will run the gamut, from romantic to adventurous to just quickies for physical release, it isn't the same all the time. There's nothing wrong with a great routine if both people like it.

And I don't like that Barbara deAngelis crap. Dr Phil is so much better. He make sense and has clear advice with things that you actually do.

Answer 3

No. it extremely is not emotionally wholesome. I agree on some off your factors. I in no way dated even nonetheless I also have a fiance. We met at artwork and became ultimate associates. He lastly asked me (a 12 months later) if i may be his gf. We have been given engaged after 7 months. we are the two 24. We have been one yet another's first and that decrease out a very good form of the drama of ex gf and ex bf and previous luggage. i presumed i become satisfied via myself yet now i can not think of existence devoid of him. And via how...something worth having takes artwork. i be conscious of somebody such as you. He swears he will in no way even date lower back. i've got faith sorry for him because of the fact he's lonely yet would not desire to take a gamble on existence. do you desire to look lower back and say "properly a minimal of I in no way have been given harm. I in no way journey actual excitement the two. become it worth it?"

Answer 4

Affair? I mostly see happily married couples, with their occassional glitches, but not ones that run out of marriage and get hitched. Nope.

Answer 5

yes b,cuz every holy book says it is gods gift if the sex is after marriage and according to scientists for having sex in different places to get more interested

Answer 6

SOME TIMES IT DOES AFTER YRS GO BY I HAVE BEEN MARRIED TO THE SAME WONDERFUL MAN FOR 28 YRS WE RAISED 3 SONS AND ARE IN OUR LATE 40S AND I REMEMBER TIMES WHEN IT WAS HUM DRUM BUT MY HONEY IS ONE OF THOSE MEN THAT THINKS SEX IS IMPORTANT AND REFUSES TO LET IT BE ANYTHING BUT EXCITING SO WE GO ON TRIP ALONE READ BOOKS AND NEVER TAKE EACH OTHER FOR GRANIT AND WE ALWAYS TELL THE TRUTH AND NEVER GO TO BED MAD AND ON THEM TIMES WHEN ITS JUST NOT WHAT YOU WANT YOU DO IT FOR EACH OTHER AFTER ALL YOU CALL IT MAKING LOVE YOU SHOULD LOVE THE PERSON YOU ARE WITH ENOUGHT TO DO ANY THING FOR THEM (WITH IN REASON)

Answer 7

Absolutely wrong ! Is it your own created idea ? Sex is a kind of emotion like other emotions anger, sadness, happiness etc. Can you routine your anger or sadness ?

Answer 8

quite the oppisite, as you get to know each other and feel more comfortable sex becomes way more adventerous,
you know exactly what pleases each other. For the record, married for 26 years

Answer 9

"how do they think they resolove it"
.....with learning relationship methods like here:
http://www.barbaradeangelis.com/advice.asp
"& what do they really miss in their sexual life?"
....love, respect, friendship, honesty, fun, trust, happiness, exploration, talking, caring, and mostly THE KNOWLEDGE TO MAKE THINGS GOOD/BETTER.

Answer 10

what do they really miss in their sexual life? SEX!!